Folks, I'll tell ya onething, there ez also damn racism in Sajha. I am totally suprised and hurt that my no racism awareness thread has been trashed. I wasn't favoring any races but encouraging people here in sajha to immerse together in a community and compute together to generate a healthy business and of course think about our country.

What Threads hasn't been delted is:

Why bahun are nice people?
Why bahun are on top?

Dis ez totally ridiculous to favor these threads while trashing out awareness threads.
Dis ez totally bullsh*t. Ya know what, I forgot whoever the admin ez, he ez also bahun.

I dn't f*cking care if admin blocks my username and I.P but fella's dis ez totally unfair.

Now onwards, If I saw any bahun superiority thread, I would ignore those f*cking threads and sajha as well say goodbye to Sajha like "loote".

Virus MC :(

SH!T HAPPENS MARSHALL !!
MAYBE IF YOU KISS MY ASS ....HE HE ...THAT THREAD WILL REAPPEAR AGAIN.

.Before I write anything here, let me clarify: I am not for or against any particular caste in Nepal. I love them all.

But, Marshall, let me tell you, the administrator of sajha.com is not Bahun, his name is San Pradhan. Don't just start accusing the administrator by calling him partial and by calling him a bahun. Get your factcs straight, before you accuse anyone.

Marshal67,

Thanks for your message and thank you for giving me an opportunity to explain few things that many new users might not know about sajha.

Sajha is not a full fledged company that employs many people to run the site. It is a small hobby of mine, which is to provide a cyberspace for Nepalis to come together and share a feeling of Nepalese community when we are far away from our homes in Nepal. The small hobby has grown a lot as far as the visitors to the site go and I think the site is achieving it's objective of being a cyber community of Nepalese providing a virtual community outside of our own communities from where we have grown up.

As you can see once in a while, the sentiments of the users here run amuck because of few people who seem to incite caste segregation among us. Once in a while there are inciting threads and sometimes a general non inciting thread also gets turned into a caste segregation thread because some of us are more intolerant of others and are prone to using expletives and language that incites more and more of us to start partaking in the ongoing caste segregation threads.

As I have mentioned, sajha is a hobby of mine with which I hope to Bring Together Nepali Communities. Sajha has been relatively successful but once in a while the medium of free speech ie. the discussions can become a cause of separation instead of bringing together. At these times, I have to use personal discretion to attemp to remove caste related threads so that more such discussions are not encouraged. In doing so, I normally look at the front page and delete (or classify into 'our differences' usergroup) threads that are related to any caste issues so that people don't have a caste related thread to reply to or to continue this negative discussion.

Your thread must have been one of those that I had to select.

I am glad that you scolded me for not deleting bahun supportive threads and for calling me a bahun. I am glad partly because I have received emails from few people who have called me a bahun - hater and I hope those individuals can read up your posting and realize that I support noone in general for their castes. If I support anyone I do so because I have a faith that as a human being you will have a sense of humanity in you.

Sajha is a medium for discussion and everyone agrees to discuss with respect. If you have to resort to name calling and using foul language, then your username can be disabled because we cannot have a fair and productive discussion when people start being abusive and disrespective of other individuals, or when some ideas itself are abusive, derogatory and foul in nature.

Happy Tihar to you all

* Claps*
Thnks Sanji for deleting those cast hatred thread ..!
At da end of da day, we all are nepali :-)

marshal,are you leaving sajha? Gud idea :P

Well said San.

Since this topic on so called "racism" is hot now days allow me to make few observations:

Most of the so called racist threads start by targeting bahuns and if not, then somewhere down the line it mysteriously pops up. But the fact remains that bahuns are at the receiving end most of the time. Not that bahuns don't retaliate with equally vicious attack, but the poor fellas just don't know who the hell to target specifically. Is that Newar? Is that Magar? Is that some Bhote? Oh damm it maybe its those Dalits? If nothing else then it must be our San dai. But in all these racist threads there is an underlying truth: A lot of anger against bahuns exist in general whether you like it or not. So to all of my fellow bahuns, the question for you folks is do you want San to delete threads targeted against you and therefore close your eyes and pretend everything is honky-dory or do you want to open your mind up a little and try to understand why you are despised so much?

These so called racist threads are nothing compare to the kind of discrimination that is prevalent in Nepalese society and Swetaa if this is your Nepal than you should be ashamed of yourself. And on the top of this dysfunctional hierarchy are the bahuns so if you all want to cry wolf you folks need to start by making an apology to rest of the people you have discriminated for centuries and continue to do so. Then maybe people will call a truce.

Bathroom Coffee: Sh*t happens only in bathroom dumbhole. As a matter of fact, like ya, I don't reside in bathroom. Moreover, I ain't gay so ya can kiss aznshawty or rudra upadhya ass. CHOOSE THE BEST ASS and stir it in coffee.

Mickthesick: Don't try to be smartass. You totally suck on suggestions and advices. I can do whatever I want. Who the f*Ck is you to get my facts straight.

San: Deleting awareness threading and keeping racist threads creates violence in sajha. So better watch out from now.

Shwetaa: Timro lagi ma jhan dinchu. If ya want me to leave, I will. But tit for tat. You gotta pay sth for it.

haude_ko_bhai: Try to write in para's bro. I can't bother to read ya's long texted message. I agreee with ya there ez lot of bullsh*t going on, violence among dalits and upper caste. All nepali traditional people should've brain washed and recycled with equality and social welfare.

Loote: I thought I was losing one of my fan. Ain't that right? Anway ya heartly welcome.

Rudra Upadhya: Ya better take ESL classes d*ckhead. Well from monday, I am teaching 'em. Ya know what, ya ain't qualified to take ESL, first take Toefl dumbass.