Hi guys ..do u have such situation ..fall in love with two different people at the same time..? please share ur felling,,

the ans to ur question, "Can true love happen at two ppl at the same time?' is


"Can you fu(k two ppl at the same time?"

whats the meaning of sexual harrasment?
ans: when ure banging the hottest chick. And someone tickles your balls from behind. That is sexual harrasment.

just thought of posting it. coz alter ego's post reminded of this one.

Pretty reasonable question. Folks, don’t discourage the originator.

 

And here is my 2 cents.

First of all, we must make a distinction between “can it happen?” and “should it happen?". They are different questions and have different answers accordingly.

Then, we must understand that real life ‘love’ is not a single elemental phenomenon. It has several components. And each component is governed by a different governor, so to speak. This is a very rough sketch. Because there are partial interdependencies among those components.

One rough deconstruction of love (romantic love) deconstruct it into following three components (for more detail and alternative models visit http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/OpenThread.cfm?forum=2&ThreadID=65857

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1. Passion

2. Intimacy

3. Commitment

Now, you will have to ask the original question to each of these elements separately to get more accurate answer. The answer is pretty obvious.

 

1. Passion -- yes, it can. But better control yourself
2. Intimacy -- yes, it can. But be careful about its management
3. Commitment -- yes, you can. But that will be a cheating.
   

Honesty is the least risky policy. Be honest.

 

Nepe

Lust you can onto many, but love is only one :)

Yeah

I can happen during transition period .. when You are leaving the current one and going for the new one ..

but in real life ..loving two person ( between an adult man and woman ) at the same time ... UMMM

Not a good idea.. Dont Do it .. It makes the system complex .. You dont want your wife/husband loving other person at the same time when she/he with you .. that is not acceptable at all ..

You might be a kid at 10 grade or an undergrad student .. my blind guess ..

Absolutely "Yes"!

It depends how efficiently you can maintain the boundry of respect to everyone, including yourself. But, when you are having two..three or whatever numbers of love affairs, you have to be honest with your heart. You should think you have a giant heart where you can love many than only one. Once again, you should not ponder on right and wrong values, if your heart knows what makes you happy, you deserve enormous love affairs at the same time.

At the end, you will be "Buddha" and know the entire truth of  passion, intimacy and commitment according to Nepe.

 

संभव अवश्य छ, परन्तु "आजको शिकार" बन्न पनि तयार रहनुपर्‍यो ...

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People, I think its really intersting think to talk about. That deosnt mean we should be talking on that topic only, we should go here and there and share our experience, I know so many people had the situation.

Like I had a situation, I had some kind of relation with two guys and I was not commited to both, It doesnt necessarily have to be sexual relation if you guys are the ones who think girls should not have sex with more unlike boys, I mean going out when free, may be for movies, dinner and so many things, you know what I am talking right? Sometimes, you know you meet people, you feel comfortable to hang out with, and you started to be more than friend and you still pretend that you are friends.

So my question is, Why You know that you wont last with that person but still you cant stop going out?????, may be coz you want it to happen or something like that I guess,

Sometimes you know the guy want to go to different level of relationship but you are not ready for that but still you wont say I dont think the way you think, why is that?? I am sure its not me right?

I think this happens to most of the singles who are not commited with anyone, we are humans people so its ok dont hesitate to talk on this topic. I have seen this in commited people also I think if it comes to committed people then its cheating I guess. I found it really complicated, why dont you guys drop your ideas about it and the experience you had from before.

 

In the words of Shawn Corey Carter - ' I got 99 problems but a witch aint one, hi t me', ;)

gc1488: "you meet people, you feel comfortable to hang out with, and you started to be more than friend and you still pretend that you are friends.". Touche. Happens a lot :)

It's really a complicated situation if you love 2 person at the same time but it can happen I think. Love is very abstract thing and there is no limit to it. You won't run out of it even if you give to many ppl. Only thing is expressing your love to more than 1 person at the same time may not be right thing to do. But even if you don't express, it is there.

That is why, you need to have a giant heart to face any consequences and the power of love strenthens your will power to get victory over any situation. Even you lose, it's not an end of the world, there's someone waiting for you in a hindi movie style.

ALWAYS BE PROTECTED AND SAFE.

Love can happen with anyone and at anytime, no one can change it. U can love more than one person at a time. But i think its morally wrong. You are not doing justice with your partner or i would say partners.You are not comitted, and are cheating  Think if the partners you love also loves you and some one else, how would you feel?

and in the 1st place why would you look for someone else if you  are  in a relationship? If you are not satisfied or out of love for some reason,why wouldn't you just break up and start a new relationship with someone else?

But there are always exceptions.

 

i used to fall in love with more than 2 girls at the same time. it was a big problem for me. But, after the tragedy from 1st love, everything changed. Aba in love with only 1 girl.

I can t find one nice guy to fall for and here people have options to choose from..

 

 

 

OK I just wana make clear ..suppose u r far from nepal and u have already relation with the grl from nepal but its almost more than 3 years u  r having relation  ( long distance relation) U dont knw when u will be nepal and not sure that when grl coming to ur place but still there is hope u have communication ...at the same time u  found some other grl  who is near to  u and  daily meet each other , gradaully like each other so at  that scenario is it possible to happen love happen two different people at the same time.?

 

I reallay appreciate the each and every one feeling so please express ur views

 

thanks

sma LOL @ U

@henry14 that is pretty common nowadays . But fortunately enough (if u can look at it from a optimistic point of view) you are one of the few lucky ones who actually have a choice (thnx to @sma's comment).


Its all up to u :) we can only wish u luck.

The answer to your thread is: No you can only be in LOVE with One person (at a time :P).

I agree, one at a time ;) .You think you can survive two in this economy ??Be wise !think smart!

Its nothing strange if u fall in love with two people at the same time. And, for sure ull get more attracted to that boi/girl who is more closer to you, who you share everything in your daily basis. But, henry i guess you are in US right? Which place? Does the one closer to u stay in the same place u do or in different state? And. is he/she is in relationship with u already or he/she has another one? Your question seems somewhat vague. But yah it has happened with me too..!!