I was in class, as usual trying to sleep, but something did turned my mind came outta the class and wrote my mind.

LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!what is love ???????? as a matter of fact I dunno the meaning?.. I mean its vague, any one can define it in their own way. Its like liquid, which takes the shape of the container. So here container is the person who defines it. It is the best definition I can put. No one really knows what love is and what it is all about. Every one feels it, every one talks bout it and blah blah blah blah???????.. but do the people really understand the meaning ??????????????? I dunno. There are lotza stories bout love, so called love sotries like Romeo and Juliet, Heer and Rajha. Ram and Sita, Radha and Krishna and yada yada yada yada yada??????. I can go on. But all of them has a similarity, none of them lived happily ever after or did they ???????? I don?t think so. Love hurts, its pain in back, it keeps on hurting and still u want it, but Y ?
Someone has said, dunno who ?????? but said, love is to give not to take, Love is to lose, not to win. Is it true ??????????might be, all the storied above suggests that this statement is true. Y am I explaining all these????????????? Khai ? love is illusion, confusion, delusion, fallacy and wat not ? it is more vague and vast than universe. *study universe and study love* I got the choice, I choose I study universe, it is easier to study in comparision. Mahadev (god of all gods) had carried the dead body of his wife all around the world for years (this is just a belief, but might be true as well), that is love. And after sometime, married different girl, that was also love. Which one was true ??????? Both !!!!!!!! Well I was in love some time ago. I would say long time ago. I still dunno, was that a true love, or infatuation or sexual attraction or physical attraction or ?????
How do people know bout true love ?????????????? I sacrificed a lot for a girl and what did I get ????? nothing. A rejection after some time. People say there shouldn?t be any expectation in love, ok, great, but is it true in real life ?????? Hell noooooo People are very selfish, every one is selfish.

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I wold like to set what I have written as a background of the story. But i need your comment and suggestions. Open to comment and debate.

harkeDai

HarkeDai.........

Here you go one more definition of "LOVE" for the new page of your love lexicon.

LOVE= Lost On Volatile Excursion..........

Pheri-Vaytaula
VR

you talking about love..i question about life...what is the purpose of my existence??..

Life day 1 you never want ed ton get out of that womb..

day 365*2 .you never wanted to be in school

day 365*15 you never wanted to date that dude

day 365* 21 you never wanted to start losing your frens

day 365*21+ you never wanted to be an adult .......

day ..... porquai?? je nes ces pa

harkedaju......i always thought that i m the *theesest* keta, tara aaja ta malai tapai ko story bha-nau doug phade pachi ta, malai aali aali dought lagna thalyo.... saachi.

"what is love ????????" daju said

daju sanga aauta dictonary pani chyina, hyaaaaaaaa bro pani....kasto thees thees kura sodcha bhane.....answer dina pani malai ta wakka ra laaz lagcha. aaru manche haru ley, ke sochney ho kunne.

"I still dunno, was that a true love, or infatuation or sexual attraction or physical attraction or ?????" harke daju said

can i say daju. na ta ture lop nai ho, na ta infatuation, or sexual or physical attraction ho. daju tyo ta *baisa chade ko ho* ;) . la daju, bhadai cha. ...aa-tyan-ta khusi lagyo, malai ta.

aaaba....kasto kuro hai...and this one iz realy killing me.

"Open to comment and debate." pheri daju ley nai said

wat do u want us to debate on? dueta topic ta hunu parcha ne debate ko lagi, yeti kai debate gara bhanney ho, manche lai....confussion huncha ne, daju.

mero yo sabai kuro haru phade ra, satto aaudney ho ke, malai ta eek daam chinta lagna thalyo...!!! :(...lau na

well
we come across different people in life and happen to fall in love with some. More often than not, we just get infatuated coz i believe its a human nature to get attracted towards opposite sex. Its easier to get infatuated but difficult to realise that u r infatuated specially at the beginning. But once u spend more time, u will come to know that yeah actually its just an infatuation. All this boils down to the fact that true love just happens without knowing and trust me it happens just once in a lifetime.
I personally dont believe in love at first sight. U have to spend ample time with your partner to really come to know that he/she is made for u and u r made for him/her... since time is the only factor which decides whether u r in true love or just infatuated.

Well for me the only love that exists is th love between family members,... and the truest form of love is the love a mother gives to a kid... al other things are just plain bullshit.. no matter how much you think u love a person.. later you will be left all by yourself.. so face it... 2 ppl of opp. sex dun EVER have true love!!

Nice one Rhythm...typical Rhythm Eshtyleeeee....."Love is one big illusion"
Nirman

hmm love:

if u believe thn it exist if u dont thn it doesn't exist

we believe on family love coz we have seen it being sucessfull
we dont believe on other love coz we have seen it torn apart /not wroked out.


frm my point of view;
it exist only thing is people fantasize too much and make it look worse .if u see with simple eye it is just simple....

refer to my thread in "romancing a yankee", there is more confusion.

People don't want love...they just don't want to be alone (now or later or both)..
Love is just there as an excuse, gives people a sense of security that one person they care about is going to be there for at least a while so they don't feel like they are totally alone in the world. I mean there are tons of people and there are so called friends too but they are not the same. They won't be there all the time, people come and go but if there is so called a love then that person (there is a chance) might stay with you during hard times too.

Harke dai... sleeps in class????
and dreams about love.... how nice :-P

no matter how much you think u love a person.. later you will be left all by yourself.. so face it... 2 ppl of opp. sex dun EVER have true love!! >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Rythm, I understand what u saying here, tara i don't buy this. There is difference between bau aama mo maya and love between opposite sex. Human being needs both of these to survive. True love exists between two opposite sex, but u have to find the right person.

it exist only thing is people fantasize too much and make it look worse .if u see with simple eye it is just simple.... >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Very true ruina. Tara is it so simple ??????? if I love someone, I don't fantasize that, i try to make it simple tara it doesn't work. I mean it just doesn't work. It is not worse if there is no selfishness, maanche na ho, selfish ta bhai haalcha, self centred huncha. If there is no understanding between the two, it does't work, well at least that is what I believe.

I personally dont believe in love at first sight. U have to spend ample time with your partner to really come to know that he/she is made for u and u r made for him/her... >>>>>
I also don't believe in love at first sight. Tara some time infatuation overcomes and u fall for someone u c the first time, hoina ra.

LOL... oki oki maybe i was a bit too harsh... ppl of opposite sex can have true love but it is so rare.... that it is almost negligible in today's generation.. oki i think that this sounds much more better. Aaj kal.. people confuse hormonal anxiety and infatuation as love.. maybe u might love a person too... tara according to me... love should be unconditional.. think of ur partner befor anythin else and love them no matter what might happen!.. tara aaj kal that doesnt happen... its always "ME" this and ME that... i mean if you can make your so-called-love cry all the and be happy then is that really TRUE love?? khai malai ta thaah bhayena hai... how wud u ppl define "TRUE LOVE"?

Hello HarkeDai......

Reading your thread I came to some of the following conclusions:

1. You are kinda loner
2. You were once abandoned by the girl whom you loved dearly
3. You are kinda non commitment fellow
4. Something happened to you while you were young, that the impact is till now
5. You try to isolate from others
6. You don't give a chance to any girl to understand you, care you and eventually love you, because to you anyone who tries to analyze you, you find it offensive
7. You try to runaway from problem rather than understand it

The core point is- you have not met that girl yet. Once you will, you will be flying without wings.

SuvaChintak
***Quest

Why do people always define love or true love in a ideal sense. Everyone be realistic and define true love. Things happen in life, there is no such things a perfect happy life for anyone. Keep everything in mind before writing down what true love means to you

AuetiKT

People define love or true love in an ideal sense (or people are idealistic about it) because it is hard to attain or achieve to its perfection due to the fundamental nature of reality that reality almost always works against the some trying to achieve that perfection. The same rule of nature applies against "perfect happy life".

IF anyone achieves that level of perfection it is like "living a dream" to that person that gives deep inner peace and satisfaction.The other aspect of it is that if someone achieves that level of perfection he/she will definately be adored/admired whatever or at least be remembered by others.

The optmistic note is: If you aim and dedicate yourself to reach for the sky, prpobably at least you might reash the tree tops.
Same thing applies for "love or true love".

love should be unconditional.. think of ur partner befor anythin else and love them no matter what might happen!.. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Now, I buy that Rythm. Aginai teti bhaneko bhaye ta bhai haalthyo ni. hehehehehehe.

Why do people always define love or true love in a ideal sense>>>>>>>>>>
Its not only true love people defin in ideal sense, its every thing, people define in Idle sense, Guys define their gf they wanted in Idle sense and vice versa. People define how they look in Idle sense. People define how they **** in idle sense. There is bench marking in people's mind for every thing, for comparisions.

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I loved a girl??.wow??did I do anything wrong ???? NO, I didn?t. The girl next door. She was beautiful, gorgeous, difficult to explain in words. She was very fair, I called her snow white in many occasions, short black hair and wore power glasses. She was just awesome for me. I could not stop myself from looking at her. I spent hours waiting just to have a glance of her face. I believed, she was the most beautiful person I have ever seen. I bunked classes to see her, say hi to her. That would give me the heavenly pleasure. I would be nervous in front of her, I would turn red, but I loved that nervousness. I wanted to be nervous for ever. I would find myself lost in her thoughts. I dunno how she felt ????????????????at least I hoped, she felt the same way. Hoped ??????????? there is no hoping in love, I realize it now, but then I hoped and only hoped. I was never close to girls in my school, I dunno Y ?????? may be I was toooo rude, I was rude. I never got a chance to understand girls. Those days, talking with girls was not the best thing to do, it would be difficult to face ur frens. They would talk bout u, well I can take that but when it goes all over the school, can?t hold it. After all it?s a big school, and rumors spread like anthrax. After that u r infected with it????. Infected meaning its all around u??.Like all girls I couldnot understand the girl I loved. The girl I wanted. The girl I admired. So I hoped she liked me as well. Wateva she thought, I would find myself lost in thoughts bout her. I would watch her till my sight followed the blue shirt she wore for her school. I knew her schedule more than mine, and changed mine according to her. Was is possible to change????????was the question I asked myself, yea every thing is possible. The worst I had to do was bunk classes. I could do that. Its not a big deal for me. I can request my teacher to change my tuition group???. Well the question he might ask would be, Y ???? I can say, I don?t wanna study with them, the worst that could happen, I would be out of the group, the best of frens. I don?t care. After all it is bout the girl I love so much, who cares for those bunch of guys ???????????? So finally, after thinking for long time (that would be couple days). I finally decided to bunk the last period and change my tuition group for late night, with guys from different school.

I was in class, as usual trying to sleep, but something did turned my mind came outta the class and wrote my mind.

CLAAAAAAASSSSSSSSICCCCCC!!! you sleep in class and write your mind outside of class....that's a first timer! wait wait..hold on. is this some kind of mind reading thread, that many have been claiming to do in sajha lately?

in anycase, cheer up dude! you haven't hit the abyss yet. if you are this melodramatic without falling in love, where you gonna end?

I say.its friday afternoon...stop this bullshit, head to the city ,go to some strip clubs and you will know for sure, what love is, or rather what you really love... :)

1. You are kinda loner
2. You were once abandoned by the girl whom you loved dearly
3. You are kinda non commitment fellow
4. Something happened to you while you were young, that the impact is till now
5. You try to isolate from others
6. You don't give a chance to any girl to understand you, care you and eventually love you, because to you anyone who tries to analyze you, you find it offensive
7. You try to runaway from problem rather than understand it
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Quest, very good analysis. I never knew people could be this close to read me. Should meet u some day dude. Where r u at ?
Lemme answer ur all questions.

1) I prefer to live lonely life. Preety much alone or with one or two frens, kura milne khaalko.
2) very true. But I don't have hard feeling for her or don't want any sympathy from any one.
3) Is that supposed to mean, I don't have commitment ? If yes, I don't accept that.
4) Right on target, great job, u should be in olympic dude. nepal le gold medal pai haltyo ki. hehehehehe. Tara its not love, that changed my life and my thinking and behaviour for ever.
5) I have already said yes to that. Very true, i want to live preety much isolate life, with one or two frens around me.
6) No, to this one.
7) No, i face the problem and try to solve it and have solved it.

The core point is- you have not met that girl yet.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Very true. No comments on this as well.

Thanx for reading this post dude.

I say.its friday afternoon...stop this bullshit, head to the city ,go to some strip clubs and you will know for sure, what love is, or rather what you really love... :) >>>>>>>
Sure thing buddy, wanna join me ??????????? hehehehehehehe. Common over. LoL

It is neither confusion not illusion. If you get it it is joy, if not it is pain.