Tamang bhanya bahun ho? Keti ta atti rahar lagdo, potilo hunda rahechan ta? lyaunu paryo ki kya ho?

Bahun Ji,

Mann parey pachie, jaat ko k kura bhayo rah !! Tamang bhanya bahun nabhayey pani, timley bihey garey pachie ta automatically keti bahun bhai halchha ni. Haina?? End result is what matters ni...hahah..;)

la la, all the best hai :)

i dont' know if you are joking or what, but honestly have an objection to this quote "Tamang bhanya bahun nabhayey pani, timley bihey garey pachie ta automatically keti bahun bhai halchha ni"
just becasue a tamang girl marries a bahun DOES NOT make her a bahun. keta manche sanga biye gardai ma, is the tamang girl supposed to give up her whole her culture? something handed down to her by her parents, grandparents for more than 20 some years?? give all that up in matters of seconds?? she can still marry the bahun guy and keep her tamang identity intact no?
hm, were u actually implying that?

lfc,

I was in no way talking about giving up culture. I was talking in general, the trend that one actually practices in Nepal. For example, if a girl marries a guy, she NORMALLY takes up her husband's last name. That is what I was implying. I am glad you asked- thereby giving me an opportunity to clarify my previous comment (made in jest) to Mr. Bahun.

As far as "giving up one's culture" comes, khoi- although we are all different (among Nepalese), yet we are all similar. In that, dashain, tihar, etc ta sabbai ley manauchha. Other things specific to Tamang culture, it depends on the family of the guy, and how open they are to it that should determine it. Yes, some families might be liberal enough, some families may be fine with the girl going and celebrating it with her family (maiti), and some might not be cool with the idea. At least that is what I see around.

If we are talking about a nuclear family, ie: if the couple choses to live separately, then it is entirely upto the couple how they lead their lives.

In conclusion, I never implied that one would give up the way they were brought up. Thats something instilled within us, and no matter what, is always within us. (The culture, the lessons our parents and grandparents taught us).

Hope this makes better sense,

B.B.

i feel like i am taking sociology class again... hey Brunette.. do you teah on some tuition institutes somewhere?? i wanna try n see if u can help me out with the course... lol

In USA or other western and wealthy nations, the girl takes up the husbands last name.

Kina hola..????

Read this article,

http://www.kantipuronline.com/kolnews.php?&nid=73066

it sucks man, really sucks. This is 21 st century, the country is just fresh from jana andolan and there are people using government staff (police, army) as slaves. Well done kantipuronline, its now governements turn to immidiately put an end to all this non sense. This is the time to respectfully crush the ologarchs otherwise i dont think the it is possible to stop maoists from physically crushing those oligarchs.

KANTIPJUR KEEP UP THESE KIND OF REPORTING, YOU ARE DOING JUST GREAT

Hello Silpat Bahun,

Tamang ra Bahun aautai hunchha ?? Gatilo thread creat gar na.

-BD

hey nepali chhor--always olgarach olgarachs, hahhaa what is that man? u seem very much obsessed with the word " OlGARACHS". Its not ologarachs but Oligarchs. Please correct your spelling. ok never mind, it makes us confused ni.

Who cares? Let's move beyond petty squabbles about who's who and what not.

MrBahun is a racist, there is no doubt about that. but people who have responded to him are no less racists either----HYPOCRITES

OOHI non-racist
LOOTE

Someone's having trouble getting a hardon again.

jhan najanera question sodhi rachhu, lootekukur ko hallai beshe! namai ta lootekukur, looto nabhako kukur lai ke dekhi sahancha?

^40 yrs old virgin..hehe

hari-om
loote

oops that was for ^^
^ is a racist #1

Liar. Poking a hole in a pillow and dry humping it doesn't constitute "sex".

if you come out, it does though! i know my experience man!

Why don't you buy a blowup doll or something? Cheap ones go for $20 a pop. You may need a jar of vaseline though, lolzers.

nice idea, how do you know so much about this? ha ha. very funny thugged out, totally out. ha ha

Question should be: Tamang thulo jaat ki Bahun thulo jaat.

Bahun le vanchha bahun thulo
Tamang le vanchha tamang thulo.

Ma vanchhu duitai samman. Both are exactly similar. Only differece is their practices.