ok you guys!!!..i need some opinion from my nepali friends ke!!!!....is it bad for a nepali gal to fall for indian boy????................................
your comments will be appriciated ke!!!...

i dont think its bad.....

UNLESS he is Muslim... then it could be bad... u cant drink, u cant smoke, u cant party, u cant wear those short choto mini skirts that nepali girls love to wear in usa..

-lato

I would never suggest anyone to marry a Muslim either..seriously .

As long as you love each other it doesn't matter. In my opinion, its wise to marry the one who really loves you rather than to marry the one with the same cast or religion who doesn't love you. 

i can't even imagine... that...

nepali falling love with a dhoti keto... hahaha.. may be coz i've never seen one...

do watever u want girl...hahaha  

dont marry a bihari . or somone who chabaos pan and gutka and other nasty stuff like that. pilease

Any self-respecting Nepali would stay 10 feet away from a Dhoti.

Love is always right, no matter who you love and what you love. As long as they both love each other thats all it matters.

Love is always right, no matter who you love and what you love. As long as they both love each other thats all it matters.

Are you planning to fall or are you already on the ground? If the former, change your plans. If the latter, get up, here is  a hand! Thutt! Ke ke pani sodhi raako!

And be specific too: What Indian?

Keralian? Stay away!

Bengali: Yuck!

Madrassi? Dubo khanchha rey tinarley ta!

Tamil? Noooooh!

Sikkimey? Go for him!

Gorkhey? Go for him!

Naga, Mizo, Khasi, Ladakhi? Thumbs up! Go for 'em.

Any other hard-core "indian"? STAY AWAY! Dukha pauchhau naani!

Also depends on what kind of a nepali you are! If you are a baaaahun or a chhetri, you may be able to adjust. Shaha, rana khandaan ko ho bhaney chai rajasthaani haru khoja... salakkai mili halchha!

 

All in jest hai!

 

i personally dont want to give suggestion in such matter.  you got to think.  think about your future, career, parents.  and you are not sure if this gonna last, or are you?  do you really think he is the person you wanted all the life?  i am assuming you are an undergrad student, you got long way to go.  stay focused and do well, thats all i can say.  if someone ask me what is your personal choice, i would always say nepali girl who can understand my culture.  i dont need to spend time and effort to teach her those thing.  i want to keep things simple.  i was talking with a white guy when i was doing my masters and i asked him " i have not seen that many white guys going out with any other girl than white, why"  then his answer was similar to mine.  well, we speak same language, we have similar culture and its easier to understand.  believe me, these are important things once you start living together if not while dating.  like few people mentioned, if the guy is mulsim, you really need to think before making any decision.  they are very conservative and and it might be very difficult to cope with new environment.  new environment is not easy. 

million dollar question huh.. well, i can think of only 3 reasons for a nep. girl to fall for a dhoti guy.
1. U must b ugly as hell to not find a single nepali guy, or
2. U jus like their "dhoti's" hairy body, esp. chest. and wanna feel like a burning sensation, like rubbin sand-paper, against ur body while the two of u r doing it.
3. Or, u dig Austin Powers soo much, and the only thing close to being as hairy as the ladies-man "Austin Powers" for u- is an indian guy.
  ENJOY!!!!

I agree with AAAA and talking aobut indians, they are very manupulative. In my conversation with many indians, they said nepalis girls are easy to " pattau" or get laid to be precise. If nepali girls are falling for indian guy, who has comparatively nice build up, and so on..then entire criteria for falling is wrong. I know KT if that is the reason for your falling for indian guy, it is just ur physical desire or infatuation. Life is long and more than that your inatuationa and physical desire will end when you reah 40, or menopause, then what will you do.

budiling a realtionship, an authentic relationship is very importatnt in life. SO think about your parents, your future and security, and so on. Life is not about throwing flowery words while you are dating, real challenge starts once you married. To much socio cultural differences bring turmoil. Trust me i would not advise it to be very frank!

If any Nepalese gal plans to settle down with an Indian guy it will be like a goat just following after a bull! its like a contrast between the silk and sand paper which gonna never be match to each other.So, life is very fragile one must learn to take care of it b4 its too late...therefore, I say don't jump into the wall knowing that u'll never get out of it. Change ur mind and be a "Srimati" of loving, caring, understanding, and decent Nepali guy I believe u will not regreet for having him in ur life.

 

 

Best wishes

Khai k bhannu. Most  of my cousin (girls) they married Indian Guys. Most of them NRIs . Infact just one of my cousin (girl) married guy from Nepal rest all married guys from overseas most of them indians and some gore.  Those who are married to Nepali are also happy, those who have married to Indians are also happy.  So it is pointless to debate on this fact.  As long as you don't love any bihari and the guy is from a decent family it should be ok.

girly gurl,   love is always right, no matter who you love and what you love. As long as they both love each other thats all it matters.ha ha ha, use your common sense and be mature. Don't use filmy dialogue, reality will be different. love is good but keeping that relation forever is tough, by only love you can not survive and you can not be happy by making other unhappy in your family and society. 

My personal opinion is love cant be defined as good or bad at all cz love is just love! anyways if u r askin about practical aspects and outcomes  then I would say u rather make sure he(indian guy) loves u to death and u also love him. Yes life will b bit hard cz u may have bunch of best friends and relatives cracking jokes on dhotis and they also cracking jokes on gorkha (gatekkeper as they say) ,however, u and ur mate should b really thoughtful all the times and handles situation wisely.

I thought falling in love is something that just happens involuntarily – not something that one pleads for beforehand. And if you, yourself, have to question the dignity of your partner, IT IS probably bad to fall for that person.

Dhoti le ahile maya gare jasto garchha, pachhi aafno rang dekhauchha, NEVER EVER MARRY A DHOTI. Tyo dhoti le taal paryo bhane mumbai lagera bechidinchha, GIRLS STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

Three things are big for Indians - wine, wealth and women. It is true for most men, but Indians die for it. I found it so true when I was in India.

And don't tell me that love is always right. If it is so, there would be no such thing called 'divorce'.