Hi friends,
I really have sad story to share with. I am a PR and I got married with man who is out of status on last October, 2013. I found,he is having extra marital affair consistently with all proofs but he is still lying with me.
I filled him I130 form which is already approved now. How should I move now, first divorce or calling to USCIS to cancel all the process. Since, our marriage is not even a year can I file a divorce now? I have been living in USA continuously from more than 2 years.
Please guys.. need really good suggestion as I am in horrible situation.
Appreciate a lot for reading...
Thanks

Thank you all for your support and suggestions.
One more question plz... my so called spouse, is now saying he will stop that relationship (I know, they are still in touch) and doesn't want to have divorce with me cause he love me a lot. Its sad but true I also love him, but have question in my mind that, is he fooling me again,,? Should I hear my heart or my brain? Should I give him one chance or just finish it now? When I see his face I just want to forget and forgive everything but I am not sure about his intention. Please guys, need your suggestion.
Thank you

What a pathetic girl.

I'm a guy and I know how a guy behaves.
I'm sure he's after a green card and as soon as he gets it (or may be 2 years after getting it coz I think you have to stay together for 2 years after getting gc fro ur spouse), he'll kick you out from his life. If a guy cheats once, he'll cheat again.

My grand mom used to say "aaimai ko buddhi chakaa" and this time too I feel she's going to be right. LOL.

'Love is blind' thats what am seeing here.
Life is a role-playing game, it's depends on how you make choices in your life, good or bad it's all in your hand.
Best of luck. whoever you are Lady.

He will love you until he has to wait for his citizenship, that's what I see as per things you're explaining here in Sajha. Listen to your brain, heart can fail anytime.

Take your time. !!!
As you said you love him so be strong and keep the relationship.
Find out the truth. If he is Nepali too then talk to his family too.
My point is don't be weak. Stay strong and make it happen the way you want.

Thanks ...Shere, Hydrogen Sulphide and Nepali scientist.. Yeah I am taking sometime before making decision..Appreciate a lot.. Thanks

http://www.courts.ca.gov/1247.html
You might need to read this .... You can get some idea..
... You found about him just a few month of marriage ...To be honest, you should move on and let him go because like most of us Are saying he might be just using you for a residency...

Everything happens for a reason and it ll happen for a good. That is good you still have time to stop him from doing wrong things ...
Make him learn his lesson
Best of luck and stay strong...
SN

One of the Gentleman in Teaching profession's list : married to a Nepali girl from New England, as he got Green Card started giving hard time and compel her to divorce. Then he married to his girlfriend from Nepal.
Once you see a problem and do not think it will last : get rid of it before getting too late. You should not worry about his status or anything. Be happy.

Thank u so much for the suggestions....