Guys...I am in a dilemma about my gf...at the begining when we started our relationship..she was so keen to me and she always used to do some thing to make me realize she is always there for me...
before when i was upset she used to call me everytime just to make me feel she is there but now...she just says how are u feeling???bloody hell what's the meaning...i don't know how to understand these girls...
Do you guys think that she is over me...moreover i havn't meet her from last 10 months...she is in nepal...i call her everyday (bloddy half of my money goes on phone calls...) but still she is not as excited as before...
do u think she is over me or what....
please guys let me come out through this agonizing moments....

To much "Dear Abby" in here.....lots of Abbys in here....but regardless of what I like Unknown's and Dyamn's idea.......

back again...so guys want a suggestion again...u guys think i should really go back ???to nepal just for a talk?

ok all guys guys guys. birkhe dai i think that you shd talk it out on the phone first. just let her know that you're in a big dilemma about what to think about your relationship because she is not the same anymore. be straight, if she wants to change the topic, ask her why she changes the topic all the time. tell her that you've had enough and will not change topic, be more stern, tell her you need to know now why she is acting like that, there's no later. ask her if there's someone else in her life, tell her how much the silence is hurting you and you can't wait anymore. you can wait for her only if she wants to wait for you. if she's lost interest or found someone else or she cant wait for you anymore, atleast you'll know instead of going crazy over here. but who knows what her problem might be too, so let her know that you're serious and after the 'talk' you'll probably never call her again, so she has to say whatever she wants to. if she still has no answers well I say she's not worth it, never call her again, move on. don't give up without finding the answers though, you don't want to wonder abt it all your life do you. why go all the way to nepal if she is just going to break your heart.

damnn man, you're such a cry baby.. no kiddin' she acts like a lil' princess who thinks and acts like she wants to be your goddess... dump her with no second thought.. and move on..... if you act like this then no one gonna respect you.. remember, " you can never respect yor ass liker, it just doesn't happen that way. " Scott Bullers....

honestly, birkhe......if u accept her u will loose ur respect from her as dyamm bro said.." tell her bye bye and dont look back" ke 1 barsa gf bina baachna saakdaina....hami still alive chau taa....mula.........be a man...forget her...she is playing..dude if u marry her..she will be having fun with someone and u will be still thinking she is honest and stuff. Dude, god has given u signal now...to forget her....get the syndroms dude.

bro aama bau le khoje ko kte jhan dami huncha......even gora are talking about arrange marriage dude

LOL! haha ho yar agree with moneyminded bro, maile ni halla nikai suneko chu.. gore haru ni they look for forgerners to get married re !

Sorry to say this but Birkhey your honeymoon period is over. Every relationship has that period. If she is ignoring you cause of this, the dump her. You'll never be happy with a person like that.

Peace.

just ask her...she could be having her period for all u know....and acting the way she is.

and please don't use the word " I think".....be sure or make sure.

la birkhe dai??? testo pani sodhne kura ho ta.... 10 months... tyo long distance relationship chodne ra arko gf banaune.... and tyo phone ma kharcha hune paisa la enjoy garne new girls sanga... ;)

new girl****

I am in a dilemma about my gf...at the begining when we started our relationship..she was so keen to me and she always used to do some thing to make me realize she is always there for me...
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Hmmm ok first what i need to know is...when she cared for you so much...were you able to give her the same feeling ? If not then i am not surprised ( now please dont tell me you did...cause its her who needs to feel it ).... but if this was not the case...then i think you guys need to sit and communicate. And remember it is important to be kind and honest and to have constructive intentions .You guys need to talk openly and honestly with each other. May be she is having some problems which she cant tell you on phone or she is expecting something else from you...and she is not being able to put in words...help her with that. Fly and talk to her but dont force her and most of all dont make her feel guilty. Cause if you love someone means you also gotta respect each others feeling. There can be thousand of reasons...so stop asking or guessing and talk with her.

Good Luck.

HEY BIRKHEY DAI, I HAD JUST BEEN THROUGH THIS RELEATION SO NOONE CAN GIVE U BETTER REPLY THEN ME
dude i had been in a releation with a gal for 3 years and we 2 have not met for last 2 years and she is in US now and i m in one european country, so things were getting pretty bad recently and u know she always used to b with boys not only that everythime i used to call her there used to b some boy with her thats tooo embrasing and one day i asked her abt this thing and u know what she told me SHE CANT CHANGE THIS HABIT AND SHE LEFT ME, i used to call her almost every days for hours and i have even send her money more then 1500$ when she needed it, i was always there for her but she was not true to me she told something which she was lying to me but not all and she even got bf as soon as she left me and this all happened in 26th november of 2004 so listen to me GALS JUST USES BOY , BOYS R ONE STEP OF A LADDER FOR THEM WHEN THEY WILL CLIMB IT, THEY WILL FORGET U AND SEARCH FOR OTHER LADDER, THEY WANT FUN AND LOOK FOR SOMEONE WITH WHOM THEY CAN WALK AND WHO WILL SPEND MONEY FOR THEM AND WITH WHOM THEY CAN SLEEP................. SO DUDE WHAT I WANNA SAY IS ONCE A LIAR ALWAYS A LIAR.................. ONCE A BETRAYER ALWAYS A BETRAYER ......................... UR GF WONT SAY EVERYTHING TO U NOW BUT WHEN HER OTHER BF WILL ACCEPT HER THEN SHE WILL TELL U AND THAT DAY SHE WILL HAVE THIS TO SAY TO U...................
I RESPECT U AND I KNOW I HURT U BUT I CANT WAIT FOR U I M SORRY FOR WHATEVER I DID TO U................ THIS IS WHAT THAT BITCH TOLD ME WHEN SHE LEFT ME AND I THINK U WILL ALSO GET THIS ..................
eveyrday i used to remeber things we did and it hurts a lot when i gave her everything and how she used to show me dreams abt our future and when i think her last words i m sorry it just seems tooo easy ................... i used to remember her and i even feel myself unlucky but then again i think if i would have been lucky then no matter what situation it would have come , no matter what problems there would have arosen or whatever she would have needed to do she would have chossed me not others if she would have loved me............... so birkhe dai if ur gf loves u then she would not ignore u or behave differently to u she would have changed everything but not the way of showing affection to u.................... thats why listen to me and dump her coz she is just using u , and she will leave u oneday surely so dump that gal bfor she dumps u

i logged in today at this site coz i anted to say this to u birkhey dai coz i m just passing through this thing and i have came to know this gals never can b true to someone they always cheats u so loook for a gal who is near to u and if someday u will b far frm her then never wait for her coz she will leave u oneday

he he lots of heart broken guys over here, Birkhey dont get excited ..just relax specially if u r living far away frm her just take it as a potential relationship not an on- going realtionship...do ur stuff as a single guy if u dont have any gf in the place where u r residing, now dont tell me u cant even make one for a short term , if ur girl from Nepal loves u she will try to establish contact if not u will already be busy with some other realtionship. Chill out MAN.

sense u make a lot of sense...if only everyone followed sensible advice ;oP...there will be less hurt and broken hearted ppl i guess...

damn right....thanks for sharing :o)...some expereinces...urghh well u have to experience them to really feel the pain etc i guess..but well those brave ones who dares to share..to make it easier for others ....well...nice to see ppl share...which means they care :o)..

birkhey dai nepal ma jasto chha..hehe..hope things turn out good for him...if not...there will be another...we learn..dun we?...it takes 2 to tango..and sometimes circumstances doesnt let u..anyways hope u dun tango alone too much heehe...hmmm actually it is possible to tango alone aint it?have to be a bit paagal thats all ;oP...yap its hard...(i dunno im just guessing hehee..)but well Carpe Diem ni ;o)..if u think its worth it..go for it all the way until u cant try anymore...we are all humans..we have limits i guess....dyam the unknown does hurt doesnt it?they say what u dunno ..wont hurt u..but i beg to differ....if we really know..we can move on...not knowing..well..there will only be regrets..but will we ever know? dyam im bhak bhaking..i need to go sleep ;oP...


and yap things always does end right in the end...that is if we learn from mistakes and live with our decisions...decisions..arent they hard to make?hehe..anyways good luck...

ma gaye before i make more fool of meself...(seems like i have to hide for a longer time now..not before i check some more topics..hehe dyam...i missed this place :o)...)


danny...

I empathize with you 'damn right' bro. But its all good. Better now that later. Wot do ya say. Cheer up mate, like I say, "enjoy the moment, for these are exactly the moment ya would cherish and you would remember the feeling with smile :), thinking all the stupid things u did or thought of doing."

Just tell her, My love, I thank you for breaking my heart, if not anything, it would someday create and immortal piece of art. :)

And remember, When in doubt------------------> F**K and Forget. :)
Peace to the broken hearted and peace in NEPAL.
IndisGUIse:).

Just tell her, My love, I thank you for breaking my heart, if not anything, it would someday create and immortal piece of art. :)
Read: Just tell her, My love, I thank you for breaking my heart, if not anything, it would someday create AN immortal piece of art. :)

Birkhe dai,
Khai kina ho, sayaad "Bir gorkhali" bhayera hola ma chai nature ma nai ali agressive chu, ra dui chaar kura bhanna khasai teti garo pani mandina. Timi pani dai ma pani dai tehi bhayera timi bhanera sambodhan gardai chu. Hera bro aba pakka nepal nai jaane bhaye talk salk hoina falka falk diyera aaune ho. Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal matlab, yesai timro hoina tesai hoina, laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaas time dine ani bye bhanne, ani hidne. Kt haru lai dherai phone garne kaam nai chaina. Hera broda us bhitra free cha garne ho bahira ta eeeeeeeeeeeeeeee kha, daijo diyera pathako cha ra. Mero theory ta, aaula bhaye aauthi pai halcha ni, khutta bhaye jutta katti katti. So broda don't worry, no panic alic time gf nabhayera kehi pani farak pardaina, last time moj gara ani farkera aau, jaau j garchau gara ani arko chwak khoja, kurai khattam. yesh ma hamro mm broda ko kura k cha. MM broda pani experienced nai ho ni ta. Hoina ra broda.

Jai Nepal

Godddd i cant believe what i am reading here. Hey you people...do you think you guys are the only to get hurt or what ? There are many people who might have been lot more hurted than you. Well guess what this is life....no one said its easy. Deal with it.....but stop judging people and dont expect all to be same. Have some faith. And yea you cant clap with one hand either. And why are people so materialistic why is this freaking money so important...everyone can earn money right ? No one shoold talk about what they did or didnt or in other words its like saying.... i did this for him i did that for her ( yea goes for girls too ) . Seriously i am out of words.

Common i am sure there were some nice moments too...save that in your memory and if things dont work out...still communicate rather than just run away. I know everytime so called last communication between two people is never easy but that way both get the chance to see what went wrong. I know its not easy but dont always choose the easy way. No matter how much is hurts learn to listen and understand....no matter how long it takes...communication is veryyyyyyyyy important. I dont understand why people end up guessing...when there is always a way to ask duhhh. Communication plays a very important role in relationships. If two people can talk openly and honestly about their problems.... they will always find a way. Many people are uncomfortable talking about problems in their relationships fearing hurting their partner?s feelings or even having your feelings hurt. If you wanna make it rewarding and satisfying....you have to speak up when something is bothering you. Things aren?t always perfect and happy of course there will be fighting and arguing at times but guess what there is a right way to even to fight duhhh. Lemme stop here. phhhhhhh.

Back to the main person..i wish you all the best....hope things work out...and you both are capable of being honest with each othe...learn to forgive and compromise.Good luck. :)

odddd i cant believe what i am reading here. Hey you people...do you think you guys are the only to get hurt or what ? There are many people who might have been lot more hurted than you. Well guess what this is life....no one said its easy. Deal with it.....but stop judging people and dont expect all to be same. Have some faith. And yea you cant clap with one hand either. And why are people so materialistic why is this freaking money so important...everyone can earn money right ? No one shoold talk about what they did or didnt or in other words its like saying.... i did this for him i did that for her ( yea goes for girls too ) . Seriously i am out of words.

Common i am sure there were some nice moments too...save that in your memory and if things dont work out...still communicate rather than just run away. I know everytime so called last communication between two people is never easy but that way both get the chance to see what went wrong. I know its not easy but dont always choose the easy way. No matter how much is hurts learn to listen and understand....no matter how long it takes...communication is veryyyyyyyyy important. I dont understand why people end up guessing...when there is always a way to ask duhhh. Communication plays a very important role in relationships. If two people can talk openly and honestly about their problems.... they will always find a way. Many people are uncomfortable talking about problems in their relationships fearing hurting their partner's feelings or even having your feelings hurt. If you wanna make it rewarding and satisfying....you have to speak up when something is bothering you. Things aren't always perfect and happy of course there will be fighting and arguing at times but guess what there is a right way to even to fight duhhh. Lemme stop here. phhhhhhh.

Back to the main person..i wish you all the best....hope things work out...and you both are capable of being honest with each othe...learn to forgive and compromise.Good luck. :)

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