I was looking at a thread here in Sajha, this morning. “SAVE SAJHA CHAT” or something like that. I could not find that thread. Admin deleted it. There was some replies from Sagarnep, Thees_Keta and more from the so called anti Sajha gang.

Why am I starting this thread???? Let explain that, I don’t have any personal concerns with both chat rooms; I have friends in both places. I am random visitor, visit different chat room once in a while.

There are some issues I wanted to address.
1) Sajha is a platform for all Nepalese to come together, and is truly carries common spirit. It has so far been providing everyone with an opportunity to come together and share their thoughts and views. That was exactly how I felt before admin deleted the entire thread. That thread would have been a very useful vehicle to wipe the rumors. It would have been a useful thread to link Nepalese community together once again. Now, I kinda have a feeling that Sajha admin don’t want this rumor to settle down.
2) I myself haven’t been posting for a while. I miss lotta good writers here in Sajha. There was lot of good articles in Sajha, which has been turned only into fun forum. I don’t have any complain about fun forum, but my concern is about people who knew what they were writing. Sajha admin removed the politics out of their main stream, I already opposed that long time ago and I think others opposed too. Where is the democracy in Sajha? Sajha literally meaning common sharing, there is no sharing in here. It’s ruled by one person. There should be a proper system of making decision. Every one cannot be involved in that process but lot of people should be involved representing majority of Nepalese community.
3) I am surprised with one of the threads being around for a while, and had nothing more than nude pictures. I was not aware Sajha turned in soft porn site, talking always about sex and nudity and posting nude pictures. I don’t want to pull that thread again, but many people know about that thread. I am more surprised that administrators did not remove porn thread. Instead they removed the thread intended to remove the rumors of chat war. Isn’t it interesting? I am completely shocked to c the transformation of Sajha and its admin taking everything into personal level.
4) Just as a reminder: www.staticnepal.com and www.yetikuti.org are complete different entities; there is no co-relation between them. They share a common chat room along with other websites like www.mydharan.com www.coolnepal.com and www.khattam.com. I also visit their chat room, the same way I visit Sajha chat. I don’t have no issues with people chatting in both places. The worst part is the friends who used to be in one place are scattered now. The best part is, I am welcomed in both the places. Its my personal choice to go to any chat room I want to go. No one ever has forced me to do so. But the behavior of Sajha admin really made me feel bad about Sajha now. I believe lot of people even didn’t know about that thread, while some people did.
I won’t be surprised not even if my thread is deleted by the administrators of Sajha.com. I would rather take is as the effectiveness of my writing. I as a person, am free do join any website and chat room I want to. The worse any one can do is banning me from chat and website both. You are more than welcome to do so, if u desire to do so. I made my point and I believe there are lot of people here who think the way I think.


harkeDai :-)

spyboy read before you comment ke !! the questions are not for you they are for harkedai or sagarnep only!!!!!!! DO YOU GET IT NOW?? answer the question that was for you ke!! DANG!!!

Redstone - how old are you?? you must be a budhaa huh??? i didn't know that only budha like you can comment ke!!! all the questions asked are related to what this thread is about!!! so does that mean you should be the one to read before commenting ??? MAYBE you should scroll back up and read ke!!!!!!!!

moooooo broda..i was jockinggggggggg kya broda..life is fun though..so dun get mad
finally nail call me dang..wow..k bhaneko.. :P

nails,
i think it is so cute when you add 'k' to the end of your sentences......

well lfc..c learned dat frm me kya :P

im not budha:) for mature for sure!

do u want a compliment too spyboy?

lfc123 - thanks i guess but you should keep your comments to what the thread is about ke!!! :)

and you too spyboy keep your comments to what the thread is about!! this is a serious thread and i mean SERIOUS ke not like the ones where you can just comment on anything! :) :)

first of all nails
don't be so damn rigid ....this is an internet forum..

i forgot my second of all....

spyboy,
lets rebel and talk about random stuff in this thread...

response to nails questions :

1. Sajha chat was here why did you and your friends go start another chat room??
- First of all I didn't not start the chat room. And i am not responsible for sajha chat room either. You can ask that question to someone else. Again, its a democracy dear, every one has right to do what they want to do. Be it a chatter like me or any one. They have right to make their choice and right to go where they want to go. Might be the guys who started it felt a need for the other chat room or the people in other chat room were not satisfied with the service provided my sajha chat room. That is their choice, no one can say any thing about it.

2. You were always welcome in sajha and so is everyonelse what do you have against it??
-There is no one against no one. We are all one community and one group. We share common festivals and celibrate it together. There is always a feeling of community between nepalese all around the world, not only in USA. That also includes the people from Nepal. If you think any one is against others, that is completely wrong. Again this is not my part, but i am answering it to satisfy your queries. You have to stop thinking that any website is against others. This is no competition, it is only serving different people with different needs. I love this site, that's y I am complaining. You complain to someone you love, not someone u don't like to talk to. So, its a complain......

3. If someone doesn't go about deleting the bad threads then how will this site be maintained??
- About this, if I remember correct, you yourself appriciated the person who brought that thread, save sajha chat, didn't you. So, did you now mean, you hated the topic you appriciated. That is kind of confusing. If you did not understand what I was saying, it would be great if you can go back and read what i wrote. The whole topic was because that particular thread SAVE SAJHAT CHAT was deleted. I have not touched any other thread or topic and its not my concern either. If you still believe the thread you posted in and admired was a bad thread I don't have anything to say. I would really have appriciated if that nude thread was deleted the same day, coz that was a bad thread. That was around for couple days at least and SAVE SAJHA CHAT was deleted the same day. That is my concern.

4. This never took place before so now are you trying to take the advantage of neo being away?
- No Comment: I didn't do it, i don't know about it and neither is my concern. You should have read the whole thread.

5. If you want peace then why don't you and your friends close the other website that you created for no reason and come to sajha??
-No Comment: I am only a chatter. I write sometimes for fun, am not a good writer but still try to write. I go where ever i get to meet my friends I don't want them splitted in two or three different places but its their choice. I'd be more than happy to see them all in one place if not.............. i'll find them. Its their decision I don't have any comment.

6. Did you think that hacking the chat room will make everyone go to your chat room and that's why you did it??
-No Comment: As I told you before, i am merely a chatter and am limited up to that. I write and post sometimes and post in different websites serving different readers for example :

http://staticnepal.com/index.php?option=com_simpleboard&Itemid=41&func=view&id=336&catid=21

You would find me in different other websites too, and no one should complain about that, i feel. Neither you nor them.

7. Dicatorship, hmm.. okay but isn't there always someone who has to decide what is bad and what is good for a website???
-Yes, you are right nails, there always should be someone to decide on what is good and what is bad for a website, no doubt on that. But that is true when it a personal website or homepage rather than a website serving nepalese community as a whole. When you serving a community as a whole, you have more oblication and responsibility as an organization, website and person as well. All of us are here away from home, the purpose of the website should be to try to fill that gap rather than a person makin a decision. In that case as a person we user also have a choice to decide on which website and chat to go to and not go to as well. As you said, you are a sajha freak, no one has asked you for a reason and neither one has asked you to leave sajha. Its your personal choice and you are free to decide on what you want and similarly they are as well. You cannot ask them to close their website and join sajha either.

You are free to make your decision and the people running other chat or even websites are free to exercise their choice as well. No one can force anyone. It is all users decision. This includes both question 7 and 8.

9. What if some people just don't want to chat anywhere except sajha you know like sajha addicted then what is your plan for changing these people's minds cause i'd be sure you have one since you already hacked the chat room?? don't you ?? if you do what is it??
-Well, no one can change your mind, as I told you above its all your choice and my choice or other users choice. We as a user are always free do go where we want to go.

10. Harkedai you must care a lot about this don't you because you haven't posted any comments in sajha until now?? why is that?? huh??
- I still post sometimes. I miss the sajaities, and the good time I've had here. I miss talking to the users i used to. But again, i don't like being dictated to do something or not to do something. I was busy with my school as well, thats a different story again. I am really mad because of the post deleted yesterday and you were one of the users to reply that post. And you should have felt that too.

I hope that answers your questions.

peace


harkeDai :-)

that answers some of my questions but not all and who knows the answers to the questions that you don't know the answers too?? Sagarnep?? :) :)

where are you sagar?? :) :)

It is true that my thread was deleted and I received a note from the admin that it was deleted because the thread was being used to advertise other sites which was the reason for the dissent in the chatroom.

Have some decency and stop shameless advertising you guys.

“Once again what chat thread are you talking about ? I do not see it. And you talking about other Nepali sites the way you didi would only generate animosity between Nepali Population.” Bathroom coffee said
“…always in one of my tabs in the firefox browser. i don't recall any thread ever being deleted except the "POKA" thread, which was getting out of control. harkedai, of course this thread won't be deleted and you are very welcome here..” sujanks said

ChamciessSS – bathroomcoffee and sujanks. Yea, hai – aaja pani, do u still consider that post getting not deleted.

Btw, Chatuser bro – there was not any advertisement in that post(SAVE SAJHA CHAT). It was clear which didn’t restrain any advertisement about any website. ppl replied on it saying many pessimistic things about certain subject. So, I tired to clear up the situation – I guess, ne0(san) didn’t like my idea. This is a public thread – and I suppose we all nepali in whole have right to say wat we think without offending someone or any alliance. I think, I m wrong. Harkedaju is right – there is dictatorship in sajha, and instead of having a logo saying: Sabai ko Sajha
It ought to be: ne0 ko chakari garney manche haru ko sajha. + Bringing ne0’s followers together.

Any remarks or comments will be appreciated.

Let me make somethings abunduntly clear
1. Sajha chat was here why did you and your friends go start another chat room??
-We got banned from sajha because we had our own server and wanted to connect to sajha chat apparently ne0 dosent like the idea of someone else having the same level of power as himself.
2. You were always welcome in sajha and so is everyonelse what do you have against it??
-i was never welcomed in sajha. I loved sajha like a brother and it treated me like a step brother
3. If someone doesn't go about deleting the bad threads then how will this site be maintained??
-Harkedai already answered this was the last post an advertisement or a bad thread of any sort i guess i am do not have the mental capacity to know that ppl were advertising P.S. i never got to read the last thread.
4. This never took place before so now are you trying to take the advantage of neo being away?
-Actually i said in the chatroom many times that i would do it in ne0s face so dont ask me about taking advantage and i didnt do anything to the chatroom. Other than advertise there.
5. If you want peace then why don't you and your friends close the other website that you created for no reason and come to sajha??
-Because everyone has the right to open a website we are not bound by any law that says sajha.com has to be the only website and other websites are all illegal.
6. Did you think that hacking the chat room will make everyone go to your chat room and that's why you did it??
-I dont know how hacked the chatroom. But i am sorry. I am not sorry that it was hacked i am sorry that it wasnt me who hacked it. i guess waiting for ne0 to come back didnt work out that great.
7. Dicatorship, hmm.. okay but isn't there always someone who has to decide what is bad and what is good for a website???
-if this isnt dictatorship then what is it. if it is sabai nepali ko sajha then sabai nepalis should be allowed to put forth their views on a subject. So not deleting porno but deleting the thread and using feeble excuses as advertising shows us that the mighty ne0 who used to think he was god of nepali chat is scared of something. :D
8. What would you like sajha to do? close down the site and come to your website?? is that what you want?? is that why you runined the chat room ( and now i can't chat and i have nothing to do this and this affects me too:( :()
-First of all we wanted sajha to join us so we can have a big nepali online community ne0 laughed at our face. second of all we didnt do anything in your chat otherthan small advertisements. and lastly nails i advise u get out of ur house stop chatting and do some exercises all this chatting makes ppl fat and fussy.:D
9. What if some people just don't want to chat anywhere except sajha you know like sajha addicted then what is your plan for changing these people's minds cause i'd be sure you have one since you already hacked the chat room?? don't you ?? if you do what is it??
-no plan our goal was at first to bring ppl from chat but now it dosent matter anyway. If u wanna come then come if u dont then dont no pressure. and we dont have control over our users they are free to do whatever they want as long as they behave in our chat they can do whatever they want in other chatrooms that is not our concerns.
and this one is for ne0- u know what u did and we know what u did. We were playing little games u started a war. I am not gonna forget those 2 servers. you will fking pay.
10. Harkedai you must care a lot about this don't you because you haven't posted any comments in sajha until now?? why is that?? huh??
-not my place to answer.
lastly who the fk took my nick snuff come out comeout where ever u are:P:P:P

well said snuff bro :)
kuni kyare, aaba ta bolnu pani daarr lagyo. chyinjoo -- nails is in her class; aani bell lagnu saat library ma gayera timi lai majja le reply dincha.
cant wait to read it :p
nails aaja beehana aago bhathyio. malai jhandai kuttya. snuff -- bomb fuutcha aaba!!! get ready bro

btw, nails -- how was ur calcus test? -- maile bhanya jasto garyo timi le? tyo prof. lai muuska hasera, can i giv test on monday bhandau -- makha parera; yes yes, sure sure bhancha :D

Response to Harkhey' explanation;
Harkhey states,"Again, its a democracy dear, every one has right to do what they want to do." And so does Sajha.

"There is no one against no one." So wha's the fuss about ? "So, its a complain...... " OK complaining is fine if it makes sense !

Ok ! thread was deleted fine, THE WORLD IS NOT COMING TO AN END.

"I go where ever i get to meet my friends I don't want them splitted in two or three different places but its their choice. I'd be more than happy to see them all in one place if not.............. i'll find them. Its their decision I don't have any comment." Yo dude if youthink Sajha is dictatorship then go where there is none of that. YOU HAVE THE CHOICE AS YOU MENTIONED EARLIER YOU ARE FREE TO GO WHERE EVER YOU WANT. At the same time the Admin does not have the time to please EACH AND EVERY VISITOR HERE. Its a fact of life, YOU WIN SOME YOU LOSE SOME. But the fact that you are here complaining does not give me the charecterestics of a dictatorship in Sajha.

Ok The chat room got hacked ! ? Whom by our own people ? Bandarrr ko haaat ma nariwal bhanyaa yeehiii ho !! So who is to blame ? Not the Admin folks, its those monkeys that fugged everytging up. Now it has affected the whole community. He he WHY DOERS THIS SOUND VERY FAMILIAR ? ITS A TOTAL REFLECTION OF WHAT IS HAPPENING IN NEPAL. IF THE MULTY PARTIES(THEM MONKEYS) HAD NOT FUGGED UP NEPAL WOULD STILL BE A ASPIRENT FOR ZONE OF PEACE.

AND WHATEVER BEEF YOU HAVE WITH SITE ADMIN.....KEEP IT PERRSONAL. DO NOT TRY AND MAKE IT A COMMUNAL ISSUE. ITS ONLY WHEN THE APES START MONKEYING AROUND THE ZOO KEEPER HAS TO DO SOMETHING. HE HE !!

lolz i have a lotta problems with the admin and as nails asked why i answered i wasnt going to say anything else but she was curious so i answered. Simple as that.
:D