I am in love with a married girl..... and i am unmarried. Most of the times, I feel i don't care abt what the world says but sometimes when i think deep I think I am doing wrong.

"She is not ready to get married to me neither does she want to forget me." and on top of that she still loves her husband? CLEARLY this woman is in the boat of denial. and she needs to know that she cannot have her cake and eat it too !! please dude, u are better off sayin goodbye

Barhamasey,

No ifs and but. Screw that. She is clearly having a gala time. You are nothing but a "momentary need" for her. Don't go for tyo natak satak kura. Fcuk that. tyasto ni huncha.

On the second thought, go and freakin screw her. Kahi nabhako drama aucha iniharu lai. "Still loves her husband and does not want to se you with anyone else re. Feri arko kti bhaye ni jancha re. you know what, if you can disregard her husband, screw her and take a hike. She deserves it. If not, go and tell her husband.

Or, you can also practice some romance with her for the time being. So watch your steps. Before you know it, you might be engulfed with the fire of love.

Mero deemag alik dhosta bhacha aja, so kehi jpt suggestion bhaye herera bujum.

IndisGuise:)

Barhamasey
Dude..from your story you let us know that she does not want to forget you but at the same time she DOES NOT WANT TO LEAVE HER HUSBAND AS WELL.

So your love story will most likely end up in seperation leavidng you heart broken. Well, she has a greater possibility of having a long term relationship with her husband because she already has a married relationship as a established relationship....so dude, look like you are most likely meet a DEAD END. Dude most likely she is only taking a DETOUR here and she is not necessarily changing her destiny.

That is reason even it is ok to have a short term affair with a married girl but it will be disasterous to actually fall in love with a married girl.

Thank you all once again. Is it a good idea to call her and tell her that I'm no more in love with her. Won't I sound stupid? I've been telling her that I love her too, so it's kinda hard for me to tell her I don't want to be in relation. Aight aight, I think I'll do it. I'll break up with her. Thank you sajhaites. I'll definitely let you know what happens next.

Have she said this yet"मुझे तेरी सासो की पनाहा मिल जाए, मुझे तेरी प्यार मेइ फ्हना मिल जाए "

God I cannot believe she is in love with you while still loving her husband.. harey shiva kasto bidambana ho esto?

barhamasey - :O what is the confusion about?? there's nothing to be confused about ke!!! hare!!
it's so simple ni: okay you love her but she is married and loves her husband, hmm....exactly if you really love you can let her go and let her life a happy life even though it means it's with someonelse ke!!!
and plus it's not like you won't find anyonelse and hmm..what do you mean by her saying that she doesn't want to see you with another girl re?:S does she except you to never get married and just day dream of her everyday while she enjoys her life with her husband?? hmm...yeah so just leave her alone and find someonelse ke!!! if you really love her why would you have any problems doing this ke?? ufff!! maybe you don't even love her ke! :S

you must be one very salmankhan looking handsome young man ;);) and your aishwarya rai married with ajay devgan and oh! aish goes with ajay at the end! :(

Indisguise

"On the second thought, go and freakin screw her. Kahi nabhako drama aucha iniharu lai."

That idea is freakin ridiculous and it made my jaw drop when i read it. dimaag ta dhosta pani - alik dherai nai bhayeko jasto lagyo. If the guy has genuine feeling for the girl, there is nothing called "dont get involved and screw her". That is such an animalistic thing to do!!

If the guy has feelings for her, best for the guy to back off . Just like khaobadi said, its better to wash one's hands off of such dirty matters. (affair pani kina garney bekkar ma - why risk it?)

someones trying to be a player..goodluck

barhamasey ...STAY AWAY FROM HER...That is the best thing for both of you..

What kind of relationship do you have with her, only love on the surface or intimate relation...you didn't find any other women in this Big world....What do you feel if some does the same thing with your wife when you are married?

barahmasey dude,

My suggestion ...DONT CALL HER AND TELL ANYTHING and dont even let her know that you have realized what you have just realized. GO WITH THE GAME dude.

You dont necessarily have to put the entire game to a sudden halt to get yourself out of the mess. If you are thoughtful enough..you'll just have to turn the onging game into your favour and let the game continue as long as you wish while also keeping yourself safe and out of the mess.

yo kura kasle bujne khai...............
once u go for married women and older women there is no coming back. You can never get same pleasure and care from others even it is act as if. Thats why to be honest i have hardly been with gals with my age. This is addiction bro baramashe..........make sure " is it compulsive,impulsive and obsessive" then u can call in secondary addiction. It is addiction without chemical dependency.

bro drugs ko lagi rehab cha...tara sex ko addiction ko lagi rehab chaina hai

Damn....damn...!! I wish I was in your place.

I know how to play such games..in fact I'm always in search for such kinda girls (who are married but seeking relationship outside their marriage). you know ..LOW LIABILITY--HIGH FUN !!

Okay okay BB, Bharmasey should buy her a diamond ring and send her with a buch of fancy flower and give her an eulogy. Fine?

It's one thing to have feelings for a girl and it's another to be used and abused. Since the girl clearly is using him, he can, if he wants to, do himself a favor and screw her too. Of course I INTENDED to meant it sexually. YES!

You know what, you are right. He should bid adieu and work on his life. But I would not blame him even he chooses to act otherwise.

Animalistic thing? What she's doing is normal? My theory is clear: Speak the way you are spoken to; treat others how they treat you. Jasle jasto behave garcha, ustai behave garne baki cha hajur. Tyasaile animalistic bhako hola.

She's using him, then he can use her too. Tyai ho.

IndisGuise.

uff Indisguise, if you do wrong just because someone else did wrong to you - then this whole world would be dysfunctional and comparable to hell. There are somethings in life that reciprocrating feelings arent helpful, and one of such things is grudge/revenge. Bekkar ma, why shud anyone stoop as low as the wrong-doer? What makes sane different from the insane is his "ability to think n reason." Similarly, Barhamasey should be a bigger person in this case.

Khaobadi ,

Play along? Is it some nursery game we are talking about? "Play along"- such a light phrase with heavy consequences....


jati bhaney pani ustai ho, anyways!!

Very Hungry Lady.

and thirsty indeed!

Hera 12mase bro,
aba name nai 12mase which means sadabahar tara in negative terms. 12 mase gambler ho ke, playboy ho ke khai aba ke ho. Tara naam nai testo chaa ne chau, timro unconsieus bata leek out bhata ho tyo timro denial mechanism.

ABA SUNA BRO.....IF U HAVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THEN BIG RESPECT AND GET READY FOR PAIN.
WHAT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?
It is non other than the way higher poer loves u to solve the problem. eg;- not being demanding. Are u demanding in realtionship? then forget about it. It is not uncondtional love. Bro mind nagar hai, timi lai help garnu bhaneko malai pani help ho.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE------------->SELFLESSNESS_-------------------> SATISFACTION

ABA i have given u step, workout gara buja ya eslai tarkari banara khau, ya timro denial mechanism on garera basa....denial mechanism on cha bhane higher power le ne kehi garna sakdaina bro.

Aba i think u need empathy more than sympathy.

pyaar ke jhapi munnabhai MBBS style la bro........yeti buje pachi timi sanga cha ke solution, not with other. Hami human bhaneko " afai boksi afai jhakri". You are the only one who can help yourself not us. Hamro kaam ta mirror dekhai deene.

aba yehi upalakshya ma geet, suna bro arko kura........yo sajha ma jasle jati kag kag kag kag gare ne ..............( everyone is patient of emotion from indi,khabobadi,aznshwaty,nails, brillent brunette,MM etc etc.) sabai jana rogi ho kya...hami le ta timi lai bhaneko jasto garera afai le afai lai excuse deko ho.

so use your mind ke....dont be football of others

la hai ta bro
uhi moneyminded
recovering addict
(dont be remote control of others)