Heard somewhere "Marrigae is a drama where hero dies in a first chapter". Khai afu lai ta thaha bhayana. Many experiencied ladies and gentelmen in SAJHA.

Is marriage really important in life? Biha gare pachhi ta sabai freedom sakinchha re ni..ho ra bhanya??????????????????

I think Richard Gere says the following in "Shall We Dance?".

"We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness."

But it all seems fake to me after a nasty divorce. Maybe I should change my nickname to "unluckydude". Anyways, people have different opinions about marriage. Some say it's good others say its bad. Some say you'll lose your freedom while others say you'll have at least someone who understands you (well, unless the partner is like my x-wife)

The bottom line is that it all depends who you are married to.

Marriage is just another step in the life of a human. This is the life phase for the majority of us: (1) born (2) go to school (3) finish school (4) go to college/universities (5)marriage/job / study some more (6) have kids (7) raise them (8) retire (9) become grandparents (10) DIE!

So, lets just go with the flow, people :D

Oh I could not agree more with GI's interpretation.

Oftentimes we give up on things far too easily. Yes, there could always be another one, always someone more appropriate, but the bottom line, for me at least, is love. I choose to believe, other things being equal, love among all the other things defines marriage. THAT alone shall determine marriage. When I say love, I take into all the small/big circumstantial or otherwise differences - including other necessary components.

Marriage for me shall be,
How beautiful it is to be; to be loved and to love thee.

On the ending note however, I must insist, jab tak ladka kuwara, na tumhara na Aisworya ka. :). Just had to say it, its been other way round for too long.

IndisGuise:)

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"Marriage" I guess is the most wonderful thing to experience (though I'm not married yet). Wouldnt you want to be able to take care of someone, see someone get happy and see someone become grateful to you for that ?

Marriage is a good thing for those who wants to have one

SHADI--- ABADI ( not barbadi)

I dun know why more than 50% marriages turn to DIVORCE in Western countries?????

I dunno if i'd be happy with seeing the same face day in and day out..and if its out here ..even at owrk...i'll choke myself to death ...marriage is only for those who are planning to have legit kids ASAP...for the rest of us..its just PITB..pain in the ...

On the same note if my dude's like hugh tom clooney orwill i will give second thoughts

lol....

I am ready now - I had enough fun - need to settle down or is there still some time?