she's 19, i'm 27. no.. we are not seeing each other... i know her and she knows me too ..damn... she calls me "dai"!!
i dont know what to do.. no one has ever made me feel they way this girl does...i just cant get her out of my mind... and i dont want to ... just dont know what to do..
she' so innocent and vuneravle and lovable and everything nice and sooothing..and i feel i am not good enough for me... not that i feel i am bad or something but i guess its the age that is making me keep myself away from her...
its been about 7-8 months that i was first introduced to hert.... it wasn't love at first sight....... it's so easty to love her but it took time... and now nothing ever ever ever going to change it... i kind of avoided her for a few months...beacuse i thought it's never going to work out for the two of us..but it doesn't seem to work..distance only made my heart grow fonder...and last week when i saw her and talked the usual talk .. hi.. how;re you? loong time no see.....i haven't been able to eat sleep think . and now i know i have to do something about this... i really really have to....... she probably does;nt have the slightest of idea about my feelings..
i need help guys.. what do you think i shoufl do.. is 8 years actually almost 9 years a lot of difference in age?? am i wrong?? what do you tyhink i should do.. i mean i dont want to get iin her way.. she's got 3.5 more years befire she graduates... life sucks... help me out!!!!!

mainhoonna ji, chances are very high that the girl will not reciprocate even if you propose. Girls like to be liked and sought after by guys and they will appear nice to you even for that sake. So, my advice is that don't take this thing too seriously. Don't lose your sleep over it. If I were in your situation I would either let it go or if that is so impossible I would tell her about my state of mind in a very casual manner - as a part of some everyday conversation. When you confess your feelings to her don't think that you are proposing. Think that you are just expressing yourself and that's all. Be honest and don't be guided by any expectations. But the cure is either to let it go or 'talk to her'. But don't waste your energy and time getting confused. Love is a bitch.

Mainhoona Bro...Infatuation bhanau bhane pani 7-8 mahina Bhayi sakechha. Teenager bhannu bhane pani 27 barsa ko bhaisakechha...Mann ko bhanna daraaune po ho ki bhanau bhane..lutekukur lai tharkaako dekhda..guts pani chha jastai laagchha...ani yeti sabai thok bhaako maanchhe naathe euti keti lai "I love you" bhanna yetro tension linu parchha?? Hya...Jau bro...bhani deu teslai...natra malai usko phone number deu mai Bhanidinchhu ni..Mainhoona le timi lai mann paraauchha bhanera...Yesto kura mann ma raakhyo bhane ghar ko na ghat ko huinchha...Bhandine..maani bhane thikai chha...maanina bhane..jaane hispanic club ma ek raat..fittu hune ani feri arki lai herna thaalne...aba jor jabarjasti garnu ta bhanna milena....kaanun kada chha yaha..Dany ko geet thyo ni "Mann ko kura lai..baaki naraakha..gaatho pari jaala jhatta sunai deu"...yehi ho kuro........

dude when she was 9yrs old u were 18...and i bet u r actually older than 27....this is just sick. if u r still single and searching so desperately that u can't figure right from the wrong even by the age of 27, that itself is a sign of u having issues...please seek professional help.

its really disgusting old perverted unlces hitting on teen age chicks....im sure we've all seen or even experenced it...yukkssss

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i like a guy who is 30 and i am 18. i call him dai too b/c dai is so much better than uncle and other names. i think u should tell her u never know she might like u too. and even if she doesnt wats the worst thing that could happen.

who cares about age unless the BOTH are in <3 :P

<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
Ashton Kutcher 27
Demi Moore 42

Michael douglas 61
Catherina Zeta Jones 36

Tom Cruise 43
Katie Holmes 27

Madonna 47
Guy Ritchie 37
<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
:D:D

"I like a guy who is 30 and i am 18. i call him dai too b/c dai is so much better than uncle and other names. i think u should tell her u never know she might like u too. and even if she doesnt wats the worst thing that could happen. " ramri

Bhayo aba! Kasto Babal! Ram Ram! Kal Yug chain sanchai lageko rahechha. Uncle bhanna nabhera la boy friend lai Dai bhanne ley.

Never hear of. Whow. I need shot of Tequilla or JD.

RAM RAM RAm

Pap Mochan garnu paryo. Ganga snan nagari nahune bhae chha.

Shree Pashupati Nath le mero matrai Kalyan Garun.

Jai Shambhu

I think both of you (mainhoonna and mercury) should go ahead and ask them out. There is no harm in it. Who knows may be the girl(s) likes/like you too. I have a friend who actually used to call his husband (now) "dai". May be your case will turn out to be same. Good luck!!!

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looks like somebody is getting jealous. you need more than one shot tho...try a whole quart of jose quervo gold..

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Reeyas82,
Now I will definitely try for my luck !
Yeah, ZalimSingh it looks to me also that some people are really getting jealous..........But I don't care....aafu lai kasto tension bhai raheko bela ma..........

All right Zaslim I will try the whole bottle. By the way all the best for your endevors Mercury and mainhoonna.

But well its a ques for gals. Is it right to call bf as dai? Thats just sick.

HeHE and she calls dai cause she cannot call uncle. LOL! What about calling by his name if the dude has gone through Nuharan.

Peace

PS: Mercury, are you in LA???

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Highfly,
Actually not in LA for somewhere in California/Nevada.

okay, i've been thinkin about this....the two of you need to get that age difference thing completely out of your system. you need to accept the fact that the age difference is nothing. after all, age is just a number. she just happened to be born a few years after y'all did. love (if that is what it is) has no boundaries on age, caste, creed, or nationality. you guys need to realize that you can be happy together (wiht the objects of your affections, that is). so you need to develop your confidence in yourselves, and think that you are worthy of your love interests. if you dont respect yourself, no-one else will....listen to ramri gal - girls don't care too much about the age difference anyway. so quit making this an issue.
btw, ramri does the guy know that you like him, or are you also in the same predicament as mercury and mainhoona? just curious, cos i might be able to offer some advice to you too....
hope i have pumped you guys up...therez no reason to not go ahead with this...when i look back on my own experiences, i sometimes regret not having been bold enough....there's always the thought: what if i had said something or done something...so i hope that is motivation enough...and another thing (i forgot who said this) - "faint heart never won fair lady."

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"faint heart never won fair lady."
Really nice quote ZalimSingh

I agree with Zalim on one thing. If you try then there will be no room for regrets. So go for it. But keep in the mind that most of time you guys will be babysitting. The way the 19 yrs old and the 27 yrs old think is totally different. Hey, but give a try if you really like the gal.

peace

"The way the 19 yrs old and the 27 yrs old think is totally different." - hf

highfly, what you've said is true. but that's also true of the way a 24 yr old and another 24 yr old thinks...given that these two have been chit-chatting on the phone for hours (again with the objects of their affection) , i think that there is a deeper connection than that due to being of the same age. heck, i disagree with quite a few of my friends on many issues, but i can find a lot more common ground with my 50 yr old uncle and my 5 yr old cousin sometimes....

a) add her on msn
b) ask her what she likes to do
c) ask her you're bored and thinking about goingto park or something, and if she would like to join you..
d) if you're scared of that, ask if you would like to join you and other friends.
e) you'll know where you'er at... at that point. :) good luck dude

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Hey dyamn bro,
My case is different, please refer to earlier posting in this thread.
We are not in the same city, I am in west coast and she is in east....so only way is talking over fone or chatting on the net...
And other things I don't see any impact of age difference in our thinking.

dyamnnnnn dude! do that and FBI will hunt yu down for luring jailbaits for sex. The dude is 27 and the girl is just 19.

jptgyall1 they are all hollywood actors, they don't count as real life example.