How could people tolerate a rapist being in such a Nepali conference? Either boycott the conference, where rapists like Ajay Kumar Dev are the members and terrorists like NEPE are giving some talk or, Just thrash these people out of the convention and make the convention enjoyable and knowledgeful. Whats your say guys?
Sidster, most victims of any type of abuse can easily be manipulated and just stay in the same cycle. These type of people needs whole bunch of counselor to lead a normal life.Since she has been constantly abused by the time she came from Nepal, i doubt she has same set of mind frame like other people like you and me who didn't go through this trauma. Since you are questioning her ability, i would like to remind is it is easier to be said than done.
Which line is the woman in the video trying to say? a) Mujhe Bhagwaan ke liye chhod do ( Adopted Daughter's claim) b) Mujhe Bhagwaan ke liye chodo (Ajay's claim)
and ofcourse its our culture/tradition/chalan/ to always take males side nomatter what happens. If a girl gets raped..its because she was too uttaouli, if husband cheats on his wife..wife was too lazy, if husband beats the crap out of wife..because wife has big mouth, I can go on and on about it. Its always women's fault. I am a Nepali woman and if I ever get raped in Nepal..I would never report it. Why would I want to be ridiculed by the whole society on top of being raped.
Dance zone is a typical dumb Nepali, he is taking pedophile Ajay Dev's side just because Ajay Dev is a male. Dance zone, you are way to dumb to understand what that girl went through. And as you mentioned that the girl always had boys in the house and stuff like that..its the result of being molested by her father.
Dance zone, if you are not a Nepali then you are an Indian..and ofcourse you are a pedophile.. you have so much sympathy for a pedophile..you must be one too.
I have seen Ajay Dev personally in NAFCA in Davis 2 yeras back. He was distributing prizes or something else inside the Hall. After some time, I heard that he was talking outside with some young guys using "machi..." word.
Dance zone aka dhoti bhaiya...stop backing up the pedophile...
As NepaliInChina indicated, Ajay and wife used to have other couple over and pick a random key from bowl of communal keys and pick a bedroom partner based on the key draw. That shows this couple was comfortable with swapping partners. Doesn't that show the wife might have stayed mum inspite of the knowledge of Ajay having sexual relationship with the adopted daughter? If true, the wife would have breached the fiduciary duty to care/ minister to the minor daughter and should be made to face the music in the court of law.
Another example of protecting the culprit and blaming the victim:
नयाँ पत्रिका
काठमाडौं, ८ साउन
विराटनगर घर भई राजधानीको बानेश्वरस्थित एक घरमा काम गर्न बसेकी मजदुर बालिका मालिकबाट बलात्कृत भएकी छिन् ।
नयाँबानेश्वर खरिबोटका करिब ४० वर्षीय घरमालिक सरोज गौतमले आफ्नै घरमा काम गर्ने विराटनगर पानीट्यांकी-१ की १२ वर्षीया बालिका कविता (नाम परिवर्तन) लाई घरमा कोही नभएको मौका छोपी बलात्कार गरेका हुन् । गौतमले गत २७ असारमा बालिकालाई बलात्कार गरेको उनकी दिदीले महानगरीय प्रहरी वृत्त, बानेश्वरमा दर्ता गराएको जाहेरीमा उल्लेख छ ।
गौतमले घरमा कोही नभएको वेला आफूलाई जबर्जस्ती गरेको पीडित बालिकाले नयाँ पत्रिकालाई बताइन् । 'घरमा कोही थिएनन्, अंकल रक्सी खाएर आएका थिए, ढोका थुनेर मलाई जबर्जस्ती गरे,' पीडित बालिकाले भनिन् ।
'म चिच्याएँ तर मुख थुनिदिए, जबर्जस्ती सुताएर थिच्न थालेपछि नानी चिच्याइन्, अनि दोस्रो तलाको आन्टी नानी किन चिच्याएको भनेर ढोका ढकढक्याउन आउनुभयो,' उनले भनिन् ।
बालिकालाई जबर्जस्ती गर्न थालेपछि गौतमकी दुईवर्षे छोरी चिच्याएको उनले जानकारी दिइन् । घरको दोस्रो तलामा बस्ने महिलाले ढोका ढकढक्याएपछि गौतम घरबाट निस्केका थिए । पछि, उनकी श्रीमती ऐनु गौतम आएपछि मालिकको ज्यादतीबारे बताएको बालिकाले सुनाइन् । 'म बाहिर गएकी थिएँ, आउँदा बाहिरै रहिछ, आउनेबित्तिकै सरले यस्तो गरे भनी,' ऐनु गौतमले नयाँ पत्रिकालाई भनिन्, 'तर उसको कुरामा विश्वास भएन कट्टु खोल्न लगाएर हेरेँ, रगतहरू केही थिएन ।'
श्रीमती गौतमले आफ्नो लोग्ने निर्दोष रहेको जिकिर गरिन् । 'मैले तत्काल लोग्नेलाई फोन गरेँ, उहाँ त नभएको कुरा गर्ने त्यसलाई टुक्रा-टुक्रा पारेर फालिदिन्छु भन्दै आक्रोशित हुनुभयो,' श्रीमती गौतमले भनिन् ।
तर, बालिकाले भने मालिक्नीले कट्टु खोल्न लगाएर हेरेको र मालिकलाई फोन गरेर 'तँ कुकुर, राक्षस... छोरीजस्तीलाई यस्तो गर्ने ?' भनेर कराएको बताइन् ।
श्रीमती गौतमले यो कुरा कतै नभन्, यसको बेइज्जत हुन्छ भने फकाएको पनि उनले बताइन् । गौतम फर्केपछि बालिकाको ज्यानै खतरा हुने देखेर श्रीमती गौतमले बालिकालाई नन्दको डेरामा पठाएकी थिइन् ।
'आन्टीले उहाँको नन्द कविता गौतमको डेरामा पठाउनुभयो,' बालिकाले भनिन्, 'कविता आन्टीलाई पनि थाहा छ, तर उहाँले पनि मेरो दाइले यस्तो गर्नै सक्दैन तैँले नै बढी बोलेको भनेर हप्काइन् ।'
सोही दिन साँझ श्रीमती गौतम आफैँ नन्दको कोठामा पुगी बालिकालाई भोलि बिहान घर आउनू भनेर फर्किएकी थिइन् । भोलिपल्ट श्रीमती गौतमकी सासूले 'सरोज रिसाइरहेको छ, यसलाई मार्छ अन्तै पठा' भनेपछि आफूलाई अर्की नन्द प्रतीक्षाको घरमा पठाइएको बालिकाले बताइन् ।
'भोलिपल्ट प्रतीक्षा दिदीको घरमा बसेर पीडित बालिका आफ्नै दिदी काम गर्न बसेको घरमा शरण लिन पुगेकी थिइन् । पीडित बालिकाकी दिदी अञ्जुले मालिकको सहयोगमा माइती नेपालको शरणमा बहिनीलाई पुर्याएकी थिइन् । बालिका अहिले सिविस नामक संस्थामा छिन् ।
बाबुको मानसिक सन्तुलन गुमेपछि आमाले अर्कै विवाह गरेको र दिदी र आफ्नो कमाइ पनि आमाले नै लाने गरेको पीडित बालिकाले सुनाइन् ।
बालिकालाई श्रीमती गौतमले एक वर्षअघि पढाइदिने सर्तमा घरमा काम गर्न लयाएकी थिइन् । बालिकालाई सुरुमा स्कुल भर्ना गरिदिए पनि पछि आफ्नी छोरी हेर्नुपर्ने भन्दै छुटाएका थिए ।
Looks like you just cant get enough of this crappy thread.
Are you comparing those twelve year old suppressed girls who went through forced rape in a shitty country like Nepal with a so called consent or non consent " RAPE" of a 26 year old woman in a country like USA?
Are you related to the accuser (At this point i have stopped calling her a victim.) ????? Otherwise you wouldnt underestimate rest of the people in this thread.
I don't see any crap in this thread. Please learn to see beyond personal relations. FYI, I learned the name of victim from this thread. I posted here just to point the culture of blaming the rape victims in societies. If you see the above video, you'll see the outrageous arguments made by victim's sister. I hope you're not trying to make the one here.
I absolutely disagree that Nepal is a shitty country; it is currently being dominated by shitty people, and these shitty people will remain shitty and advocate for shittiness wherever they go.
Consent? First of all, as far as I know, US law doesn't define consent below 18 years old. Secondly, if she was giving the consent and enjoying it, she does have no reason to escape from the relation. Thirdly, perhaps you'll never agree about the term called 'rape' in marital relationship, and will say consent for that too.
Everyone on the thread agreed upon the decision made by Jury for the charges until she was 18.
Its the 600 - 700 counts of unforced RAPE with a 26 year old woman that is not believable. Quit posting irrelevant news to the thread. It is obvious that you are related to the accuser and your comments are biased. Otherwise you wouldn't give a life to this dead thread again.
Please stop making personal accusations. May be you're related with the rapist; that's why you're so much agitated by reviving this thread. Just because you're related to the rapist doesn't mean everyoneelse is related.
I never made an argument about the counts and how many years of sentence should be given to him. I don't have any idea about it. Please show me my one biased comment.
You're not the one to give the definition of dead.
malai lakhe chai haina sidster chai related to rapist jasto lagyo, and sidster how can you say nepal a shitty country ??? Are you a nepali?? Guys keep on updating, i am also egerly waiting for august 7th.
Naam chai Rachel rakhna pugna bhayecha tara lekhna chai nepali man pardo rahecha hajur lai..
Aba america jasto des ma 500 - 600 choti rape bhayo re 18 barsa nagheki keti lai, tyo pani yek choti pani chot patak nalagikana, teti matrai ho ra...500 - 600 choti to RAPE madhye yek dui choti ta...paisa liyera pani RAPE garayeko re...he he...tes mathi...Cali jasto thau ma khule aam ghumdai hidne, pheri pheri boyfried, saathi, ra hitaishi haru banauna nahichkichaune keti lai kasari yesto parna gayo hola ...?
Rahyo kura....18 barsa aagadi to RAPE haru, USA ko niyam le ramro sanga " statuatory rape" ko bakhya garya cha...tesaile guilty le USA ko niyam pauna parne mero biswas cha...tara yaha....kuro bhujna warna napari decision dina chahane tapar tuiya haru ko SEXIST comment haru matra khandan garya ho.
I don't see any point arguing with you, but if a girl is over 18,and have a bad character it means her father can do whatever he wants to do?? oh my !!! god bless your daughter.
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