Yesh paali ko New yrs party ta kaaasto Khatraaa. Yo GBNC ley baaasi baasi paisa thatayo. No cultural programe, no entertainment, no Raffle. Yo muuuzi haru khaaali aaffno CV ma matri President bhanera naam matra ko ho ki kya ho ? Mailey ta khaaali Nepal ma matri yesto dekeyko....yaha paaani yesto chaldo raicha ayyy gathey ! Tamu samaaz ley cultural programe dekhi liyera sabai KAASTO RAAMRO dekhayeko thiyo, Mero amrican saathi haaru pani daaanga parera pheri ayeko ta GBNC ley ta Lwaaapppa kwayo !!! haha
Yo GBNC lai dissolve garera naya organization khonuparyoo justo cha. That is why yo aaru samaz haru ley affnai social organization kholeko. GBNC KO DIRECTER HARU KHAAALI KURSI KO MATRAI CHAAASO HE HE PRESIDENT PARYO KATHPUTALI>>>AAANI KEY GARNU HOOO !!

यो दामोदर जीले जि.बि.एन्.सी. मा प्रमूख प्रतिपक्ष (माकुने)को भूमिका खेल्छन्, म हेर्छु।
प्रतिकृया निस्किदैन।
अनि "हैन मरेऊ कि क्या जम्मै?" दामोदर फेरि रिसाउँछन्।
एक दुई जनाको प्रतिकृया आउँछ। "त्यसो भए तैँले गर न।"
दामोदर बोल्दैनन्।
अनि शिरिष जी आऊँछन्, "हैन,कुरो यसो हो!" भन्दै।
चीत्त बुझ्दैन उसको। अनि अध्यक्ष जी नि आउँछन्। समस्या प्रस्ट्याउँछन्।
म त्यो पनि सुन्छु।

"छु मतलब!" अनि दामोदर भाग्छन्।

म त्यो पनि हेर्छु।
२,४ पोस्ट हुन्छ। म पनि बोल्छु, बिनसित्तैमा। अरु धागो भन्दा भिन्दै भएकोले रमाइलो लाग्छ के, यो धागो।
२,४ महिना बित्छ। ... ... ...(दामोदर हराउँछन्, मानौँ नजरबन्दमा परे।)

बिर्सिसकेको बेला झस्काउन फेरि दामोदर निस्किन्छन्। मन्त्री मण्डल फेरिन्छ रे। मलाई पनि थाहा हुन्छ १,२ जना नयाँ मन्त्रीहरुको नाम, स्वरै स्वरमा।
दामोदर भने फेरिपनि प्रतिपक्षमै हुन्छन्। आखिर माकुने(माधव कुमार नेपाल) न हुन्।

म त्यो पनि हेर्छु। ... ... ...
मनमनै सोच्छु , "दामोदरको प्रतिपक्षको भूमिका त जायज हो।"
शिरिषजीको बिचार हेर्छु। अनि सोच्छु, "त्यो पनि हो नि त गर्न कम गाह्रो छ, भन्न मात्र सजिलो हो।"
"तैपनि कोही नि बोलेन भने त Lively भएन नि।" जस्तो मान्छु र एक्लै चित्त बुझाउँछु। सबै ठिकै हुन् जस्तो लाग्छ।
... ... ...
यो चक्र जारी रहन्छ।... ... ...

Ohhhhooo dadagiri, yo bakus ma kay bhaanna khozeko ho khoi? Taaraa GBNC baata ta chuiikka paani chaina khoi ? Yo Budda haru lai nikaleyra(board member baata nikaleyra kaaam garney haaru lai rakhnu paryo justo cha). Nepal aama kiiina aahiley ko awastha ma cha..tyo haaamro GBNC ko baani Beyhora ley thaha paucha. Saabai auuucha aafno faida uthayera janchan aani GBNC Kangaal ko Kangaal.

He he Dadagiri...hasaunu bho yaar! And your kura is so real.

Ani tyo chakra ta pura garnai paryo !


Damodar,

I am an avid supporter of GBNC and will support for the existence of GBNC. Its a evolutionary thing. Things like you said happens and are bound to happen. We will associate ourselvs nationally, regionally and then to ethnically. (see the evolution of Indian oraganizations).

I had a chat with Surya Thapa, the president who said, this year they wanted to concentrate on food so other entertainment were limited. It took quite a courage and hard work to make "Koiralo ko achar" and "khasi ko masu" for over 200 estimated people. You must, at least, appreciate for their endavor. Cooking for 200 plus people is not an easy task unless you have enough talent, manpower and "will" to do.
There must be a long list of people who got involved to make that event successful.
I heard the DJ was pretty successful.

As for their non responsiveness, I feel, they need not to respond to irresponsible person like you. I will deal with you.
(BTW I noticed couple of Nepalese with" other" friends and I think I know you now!)

Having said that: I do have a grevience with a member of current executive committee. On that day, I requested the announcer to announce about the existence of a Boston based, Nepal orientated non-profit organization, and he refused by saying "they were limited by time". It would have taken hardly 30 seconds to say so, that too with literally no other programs.

A question came to my mind: Does he even care?

Would you have denied that request Damodar?
Was it my mistake to ask him?

damodar

I dont think there is anything to benefit from GBNC like you said. There is no faida, instead ghata.

The current executive are volunteering certain amount per month to meet the costs and defecits from previous programs.

Bhanna payo bhandaima je payo tyo ta bhanna paaiinna, babai ! Ramro kaam ko appreciate ta gara.

what is an evolutionery thing ? The existance of GBNC or the other ethnic groups that are mushrooming about ? What things are you talking about ? Why are you comparing us to Indians again ? What they cooked the food themselves ? So profit margin must have been bigger than previous parties(cause they catered most of them). I should appreciate their endevor for polishing their CV with GBNC tittles ? Feeding 200 people is feat now(it has been going 2times a year since as far as 1990 i was told). Dj was sucessful rey ? Kya bhanyo baa paisa payo bhaney ta tyo bhandaa khatra dj lyauna saakthiyo ..He he

Are you Gbnc's bhusha kukur ? Why is it that every time someone questions GBNC's business he or she is either an irresposible person ? If you know me fine...No big deal. But nobody is even going to bother showing up at these events if you keep up with the antics. I gues Shirirsh does not have the ability to think that the more people showing up = more $$$ for GBNC. If the quality of these programes keep going down ...eventually nobody will even bother showing up(are you listening Board of Directors ?) Estimated population of nepali ppl in Boston-3000...estimated turn out-200. Now you tell me MR Shirish ..he he
Your grievence is exactly what I am talking about. These people run this organization with such tight fists its unbelievable. That is the MAIN reason people are opening up their own organizations because People Like that Exec. member make them feel as if they do not belong to this community. THAT IS WHY THEY ARE OPENING THEIR OWN SOCIAL ORG. BECAUSE EXEC. RUN THIS ORG LIKE IT BELONGS TO THEIR MOMMIES.

Damodar

Mushrooming of the ethnic group is evolutionary! YES. it will happen today if not tomorrow. We were Asians, Nepalese and will be subcharacterized by our ethnicity.

You have seen Tamu Samaj. You will see Limbuwan. You will see Newars.

Why are you comparing us to Indians again ?
I am not comparing, just citing an example of what will happen to immigrant Nepalese. IT is universal.

What they cooked the food themselves ?
It takes guts to cook for 200+ people and mathematical brain to calculate and estimate.
Its not a joke ! Profit? I dont know about that. I see costs involved.
Have you idiot cooked for two people? Do you have pots and pans to cook for 3 people? Can you guess how much rice to cook for 5 people?

"I should appreciate their endevor for polishing their CV with GBNC tittles ? "
I don' t think Surya Thapa is applying anywhere where his CV becomes handy of being GBNC President. Surya Thapa is happy with what he is and where he is. On top of every thing it is not even a registered organization. So your assumptions of improving CV is totally wrong.

Are you Gbnc's bhusha kukur ?
What ever you think! They say people see their image in others.

"Why is it that every time someone questions GBNC's business he or she is either an irresposible person ?"

Questioning is fine, but questioning alone do not solve problems. The questions should be constructive. Your questions have no answers. Probably, thats why the GBNC officials remain mum.
Plus, you have big mouth. You did not prove anything by your actions. Your question to them is irrelevent. Surya Thapa will not answer you.

"If the quality of these programes keep going down ...eventually nobody will even bother showing up(are you listening Board of Directors ?) Estimated population of nepali ppl in Boston-3000...estimated turn out-200."

Board of Directors come handy at the time of crisis or election time, not with the gatherings like that. Its their wish to come or not. I saw Achyut ji (if he is still the BOD member). Dont expect BOD to hang around SAJHA>COM like you and me. they have their purposes with their lives.

Estimated people of 200 out of 3000 is damn good in my estimate. That too on the working weekday. People stayed late and enjoyed themselvs, unlike you despite having to go to work next morning. you moron !

"These people run this organization with such tight fists its unbelievable."

Its just an isolated incident and probably he did not understand what I was saying.
After all he is a Nepali too and understand the "dire needs" of the Nepali people and should not have denied the request like that unless they have genuine reasons. Part of my mistake was, I should not have requested him at the time when some one was reciting a poem about how bad the situation in Nepal is. If he had denied someone on purpose who is working for the cause of Nepal, then he should not call himself as a Nepali. He has no right to be a Nepali.

But he could have done it for the sake of Nepal, what ever the constrain was. Still, he was the in-charge then and he has rights to deny me, what ever my intentions were. I jwould not blame the whole institution with one incident.

"THAT IS WHY THEY ARE OPENING THEIR OWN SOCIAL ORG. BECAUSE EXEC. RUN THIS ORG LIKE IT BELONGS TO THEIR MOMMIES. "
Will you shut your mouth !
When there was election, where the hell were you ?
Its pretty natural to run organization the way they like, they have the power.
They dont give any damn to people like you 'cause you can do nothing except bark. In this sense, you are the proven BHUSYA KUKUR, infected with RABIS.
Nothing has happened yet because of your actions and nothing will happen unless you physically bite them.

LOL

Wait...wait...I think we should have some sort of an election to decide who gets the Bhusya Kukur title! Even Bhusya Kukur has his own identity and prestige, damn it! :)

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Hey guys,

You should have come here (Hawaii) for New Years party. We had so much fun.Good food and Cultural Program.
But I heard GBNC held very good party too. I saw the pictures, looks like they had lot of fun but u (DAMODAR). Shame on you to say your fellows, those NONSENSE and DIRTY words. Anybody can tell your class. Damnnnnnnnnnnnn

Prem Charo
Hawaii :)

Here is one picture from Hawaii....

Newuser,

Whats so funny for you to LOL?

MP,

Well..ke bhannu khai ? I dont want to be in that ballot paper...

Premcharo,

Nepali Culture Program garna "thekka" line ho?
You may be able to add some new dimention(s) from the always same style of the Nepali programs of people grouping with the known figures only and drinking and talking shit about Nepal and binging and complaining about having to pay $20.
Last year when I was in Hawaii, I felt every day is a new years day there...

I am changing the nick of "Damodar" to "DAMN_ODOR". What a stinky mess he is !

Shirish bro FYKI, LOL=lots of love/lots of luck/laughing out loudly.
Malai chai tapai haru ko JUHARI dekhera haso lagekai ho. Couldn't help myself. Aakhir bhaiskya kura lai lera kina ta ta ra ma ma garyahola hamro daju bhai le bhanera ni.
Peace out.

Moorakh Shirish,
So go ahead divide the community then. Why even have Greater Boston Nepali Community then? With your ideal this organization is definately going places. Why should we even identify ourselves as NEPALI then ? You'd rather divide the community than unite them huh ? Great thinking Shirish Babu...he he he
It takes guts and brain to cook rey ? ha ha NAHASAU NA YAAR !!! Mero ghar ma pots and pans nai chaina key garney khoi baaa !!! Maybe GBNC can help me get some pots and pans. ho ho ho
If people can see their image in others that makes you __________. he he
Shirish Babu could you please give me an example of a constructive question ? IF you cannot question then how do you even know if there is a problem(thought we lived in a democratic society). I have a big mouth rey ? Kyaho ! How do you know ? How do you know Surya Thapa will not answer me ? Unless you are Surya thapa indisguised as Shirish. Or are you guys married(thanks to MA's new law passed last yr) ?
If BOD does not give a horse's ass about US(THE PEOPLE) then why don't we just can their ass ? What is the point of having them ? For show purposes ?
200 out of 3000 is damn good rey ? Man you sell yourself short. Do you even question why people are not coming to the gatherings ? Well you claim to have the mathematical skills to cook for 200 ppl. You do the math Shirish babu ? Thats 6% of the total population. Think of an election with a 6% turn out... ha ha ha Its a joke the way these guys are running the show. Hareyyy Shiva !! How do you know if I stayed till the end & if I had to work next morning or not ? Aggain Smartalec Shirish thinks he is Bhagawan( he knows everything). ha ha ha There we go again with the name calling(cannot answer the questions resort to cheap antics).
Yeah its ok to run any organization the way they want but not when it bears our name(greater boston NEPALI community). If you were not so selfish you would have realized. Unless u want to divide every Nepali ethnic community and have the nation called Nepal dissolved. he he
Nothing has happened and nothing will happen rey? heh heh That my fren only time can tell (NOT YOU or ME).

Bidwaan Damodar!

Makhha parya? I was just teasing you.

Here are answers to your queries.


?Moorakh Shirish,?

?Thank you? and I hope you will enlighten me and elevate me to a different level of intelligence.

?So go ahead divide the community then. Why even have Greater Boston Nepali Community then? With your ideal this organization is definately going places. Why should we even identify ourselves as NEPALI then ? You'd rather divide the community than unite them huh ? Great thinking Shirish Babu...he he he ?

well these things are bound to happen. We are south east Asians, then Nepali and we will identify with the ethnicity. This is a natural process among all the immigrants, not a question of dividing the community. As the population increases you will see more than the existing Tamu Samaj, United Sherpa Association, Limbuwan and Newars Association. I see nothing wrong with that as it is a part of evolution, not a division, just like Indians have Tamils, Gujratis, Kannads, Biharis etc etc.

?It takes guts and brain to cook rey ? ha ha NAHASAU NA YAAR !!! Mero ghar ma pots and pans nai chaina key garney khoi baaa !!! Maybe GBNC can help me get some pots and pans.?

Thanks for your honesty. I knew, you were a peripatetic or a vagabond or a loafer or a gypsy.
How come you have not ran away this time. You are trying to improve your history? Good tactics!

?Shirish Babu could you please give me an example of a constructive question ? IF you cannot question then how do you even know if there is a problem(thought we lived in a democratic society). I have a big mouth rey ? Kyaho ! How do you know ? ?

The constructive question could be ?What measures Surya Thapa has taken to coalesce the Nepalese community more? ? or more appropriately, ?How can we help Surya Thapa to make him successful in building more appropriate and cohesive community that can interdependent with each other? ? Unfortunately, you have proven your perceived worth or class among the readers.

?How do you know Surya Thapa will not answer me ? Unless you are Surya thapa indisguised as Shirish. Or are you guys married(thanks to MA's new law passed last yr) ? ?

The history has shown and plus he sees no reason why he should answer you. There may be other reasons why he would not answer you. We need no President to answer you. He is simply busy formulating and tackling other important issues. (His press secretary can handle your queries. He he. Just Kidding.) for further info: read below.

?If BOD does not give a horse's ass about US(THE PEOPLE) then why don't we just can their ass ? What is the point of having them ? For show purposes ??

You may be right sir! But how many times do I have to tell you that they come handy at times of crisis (when the executive committee is dissolved or resigns) or at times of election. Are you a dunce? You better read the Bylaws of GBNC, then come and comment. I have a electronic copy of bylaws of GBNC, incase, if you are not capable to find one. You don?t seem to understand the working structure of GBNC.

?200 out of 3000 is damn good rey ? Man you sell yourself short. Do you even question why people are not coming to the gatherings ? Well you claim to have the mathematical skills to cook for 200 ppl. You do the math Shirish babu ? Thats 6% of the total population. Think of an election with a 6% turn out... ha ha ha How do you know if I stayed till the end & if I had to work next morning or not ? Aggain Smartalec Shirish thinks he is Bhagawan( he knows everything). ha ha ha There we go again with the name calling(cannot answer the questions resort to cheap antics). ?

There are no 3000 Nepalese in Boston?where did you get that numbers from ? On a week day to have 200 people is not bad. They are busy people, had things to do on Tuesday morning and yet attending the New Years party is amazing. I think, the basic difference between you and me is I am optimistic and see glass half full, you, in the other hand are pessimistic and see the glass half empty. 6% is a good number for that given situation and timing. If you don?t think so, then the executive committee failed.

?Its a joke the way these guys are running the show. Hareyyy Shiva !!?
Its not a joke how they are running the show. Even a poem recital got so much of appreciation in that chaotic situation. Hey bro?I simply feel the chemistry is not there.

?Yeah its ok to run any organization the way they want but not when it bears our name(greater boston NEPALI community).?

That?s what POWER is. Its an universal model. See Bush, he runs US, the way he likes. See King G at this point, he does what he likes. Surya Thapa is a public figure and he has the mandate for running GBNC, the way he likes. You could have got the position yourself but you had no freakin? guts to take the responsibility.

You sound like a democrat and they act like Republicans.

Like I said before, they are not flawless. They are humans too and will make mistakes in running an organization. Surya Thapa seems to have some leadership qualities and has qualified subordinates to some extent.

I agree with you to a point that, a true leader is always behind his people and listens to the need and thoughts of the people, not tell his people what he thinks.?

?If you were not so selfish you would have realized. Unless u want to divide every Nepali ethnic community and have the nation called Nepal dissolved. he he ?

The day will come when GBNC is no longer GBNC. GBNC will become something else. It?s just the matter of time. And when it changes, just remember me.

?Nothing has happened and nothing will happen rey? heh heh That my fren only time can tell (NOT YOU or ME).?
What change could you bring yet with your efforts ? Surya Thapa and his associates are not blind nor deaf to read, nor technologically inferior to access these posting. The simple explanation is, they just don?t feel the need to answer your queries. They are ignoring your being and why should not they ? You don?t know what it takes to organize one party and no matter, how well they are organized there will be people like you criticizing. Yak Yak ! Lets learn to appreciate the positive things that people do.

damodar

Please read Surya Thapa as the President of GBNC, not as a person Surya Thapa.

I Knew that Surya thapa is President
Vice pre--?
Secre-?
Trea -? and Board of members?