Its not fair for people back in Nepal to think that all people here in the States live life in Luxury and riches.......If you understand what I mean.......The pressure to please everyone back home is sometimes out of this world................sometimes when it is hard even to pay bills here...........to make ends meet........and the type of hard work we all do here....from being a waiter, construction, lawyer, doctor, to anyone in corporate USA.................work is work ...no kidding......NO WORK NO MULA.....no money no place to go , no place to go no where to stay..........on and on ...thats life here in the US ..everyone here In America deserve the respect of working hard ...being in the most powerfull and developed country...we all do enjoy the occassional......vacations..disneyland....hawai, las vegas, .....I-pod......plasma TV....Name brand outwear...........and all the good gadgets money can buy ...BUT I SAY we deserve all those and more because I havent seen any one who are more friendly ,respectful , least complaining, united, loyal and Hardest working people LIKE OUR FELLOW NEPALESE friends, brothers, sisters and Neighbors. MY hats doen to everyone here in the USA. Best of luck and god bless.

Wht makes u think so ?

By the way working smart is better than working hard .

Do u know the diff between Sojho and Lato?

Some people say neps are sojho but infact they are Lato. Not all but in general.

I do understand where u coming from . Just giving some critical analysis.

Peace

ok I do agree working smart is better........may be you have it easy........you just go to what you do and get paid to work smart and you do not feel tired at all...mentally stressed or even phisically challenged....I wish it was that easy for everyone here......provide that chance if you can and teach us how to...because.......I cant find anything that i dont get mentally tired and physically hard for me.......as for your info/.........I own two stores here in USA......recently opened a Dental Lab ,I have my own house.... and still work for a special food company.....BUT in the when i came here in the states......I worked in a restaurant......you name it and I have done it....waiter, dishwasher...window washing,....landscaping.....grocerystore cashier,...convienentstore employee.....loading and unloading trucks.....and graduating from college at the same time..I fainanced my self like all Nepalese......in the time frame of 9 yrs to get to me where I am....so dont try show me smart ways lato or sojho is all how you see it...some come here to earn money for some yrs and head back to Nepal...they dont care the nature of work.... unless you are a rich guy whose parents sent you with loaded money and life here came to you in a silver platter.........LOOK all I am trying to say is that Life is tough here and we are living it.............no matter how we do and where we are now it is because how hard we all worked for it amn continue doing it.

I hear you pal but people i know ; know that we do those things here in U.S . I was just surprised by that. These days people know that most u.s neps have shitty life.
It's tough no disagreement on that.

Yet they envy us..........and would die to to come here.........And I would do the same if I was in Nepal and In their position as there is no oppertunity l as much there is here. Hard work pays off good here..........everyone seeks for the better life and they come here expecting it all easy...but once they get here .............They get the shock of their life ...................and realize how tough it is here to earn anything.....it is the power of the Dollar that attracts all ....................when you go back to Nepal ...everyone you know expects a gift or asks you to pull them to the US as if you could do it easy..............without knowing the laws here for immigration is so tough...I wwould do everything in my power to help some of my friends to get here so that they have a better future after working Hard(smart)............but it is not in our hands and hurts to feel that way because I would love to see them here...so they in one way know the life style here.........................

i totally agree w/you maddogg. life sure aint easy here no matter where you are in terms of success and i say if you can survive here in the US you can surely survive anywhere else in this world.

Why cant you guys say fawk USA loudly; come back to Nepal and close the US embassy and live a peaceful life here.
You people just talk about this and that in US.

Once again fawk USA openly.

lol IT Gorrila but yeah I see what you are saying M-dogg but you know you can make your life better in the US...you have every opportunity to do... there are many people who are in your situation or are even in a worst situation but they always try hard and make thier lives the best it can be. Soo no point crying about it we all know life sucks in the US for an average Nepali so who cares what people say in Nepal...learn to ignore people man even if it is your own family. People in Nepal will keep thinking what they think soo dont worry about it and just relax you dont wanna lose sleep like i do because of stress man it sucks lol and try to make your life better cuz remember there is always another way.
Peace

devilskyline thanks for you response...............But read my post really clear because it clearly tells you the state I am at..........I am very content with my achievement so far and how I reached it but I still strive for more and I am not crying over it I have worked hard and continue doing so....I am just pointing the false image people back home have about the life style here.....thats all...........I have been in the US long enough to learn how to handle things and I dont give a rats a)ss of what people think of me................but you cant live your life ignoring your loved ones in Nepal........I wish they only knew first hand how life goes on here. And itgorilla.................If all the Nepalese around the world said fuk whereever they are and went back home I would totally be there ..........but reality........its all the way around so even life is hard here ,,,,,hard work pays good ......no corruption..........and to live peacefully in Nepal seem like a dream ..........look at the daily news and current situation In Nepal....who in the right mind would feel safe ???? please tell me.

maddog i think u are bragging abt ur situation to neps u know in nepal.

Just be honest to them abt the situation and they will understand. Its hard to understand lies.

think urself as an immigrant it might help.

peace

dude do you even read what I wrote..........I didnot just talk about my stuff but what is the expectation for all Nepalese who are here in the US I dont know how you came to that conclusion that I am bragging ..........As soon as anyone is an America return in Nepal would understand what I am trying to say...........No matter what you do here in America people look you like you have it all ,which is a miss conception.......that applies not only to me but to all.......so please read carefully what I wrote before and findout if I was bragging or being true about the hard life here.................

I think we are from different era !

People used to have those point of view in the past - thats my point. U.S is no more an immigrant friendly nation and people expect hardways when the want to move here.

People know that back home too; i don't know where u from but atleast where they have access to internet and access to american library !

no more - stay 5 yrs in nepal and get Grn card.
srry!

say that to people back home duke...so you are telling me that given the chance, people will avoid America...... now I know you are quite unrealistic too....I dont know what era you are from but Ive been living here in the US for 10 yrs now and I think I have done a lot through hard work..............I know how it is back home with the info and stuff with internet and news etc about America.......I still refuse to agree that you think people dont envy US and would come here in a heart beat....... I think you are not being real here ...recently when I was in Nepal I was surprised to see the man power companies doing so well and was always packed with applicants..............to go to arab countries even to Iraq.....so dont tell me that Nepalese people although know that life is hard here refuse to come here.. and hope some help from friends and relatives who are already here.....................

I think you need a hug ! but i won't be the one giving u.

no more comments on ur thread !

peace.

oh please ...dont say that...... you are breaking my heart here duke1........boooohoooo............please I cant live without you

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