1. When you expect somebody to do something for you and your expectations are not met, you get hurt. For example, you expect your brother to buy a dress and he forgot to buy you a dress, you feel bad.
2. When you try to accelerate a body of mass (m) to the speed of light, the mass of the body approaches infinity, thats why you can't reach a speed of light. Source: Einstein Theory of Relativity. Put this into love relationship. When you start to have extreme feelings for somebody, it becomes harder for you to approach that person, no matter how confident you are. You just become too sensitive that you might hurt him/her. Same as you are trying to get the speed of light and your mass is approaching infinity. At the same time your expectations increase. It is because you feel that you love him/her very much and in return you feel that he/she should do something for you. Obviously, such expectations are not met and you get hurt.
Solution: If you love somebody, don't raise your expectation. True love is unconditional. If you are expecting from your significant other, be prepared to get hurt.
Metal, I think you got the love but not the true one. As Cat said true love never hurts. Choro you are right in the sense of declaring expectations as the roots of hurt not the love. That was what I have been posting in this thread after its creation. But I am not sure about Theory of Relativity. In the general term, when you will move the mass with the veoloctiy of the light then it will convert into energy that is one part of it and on the other side time elapsed in the space will also depend on the velocity of the mass. I am not sure which way is the correct but I found myself in confusion while reading your statement. So please correct me, if I am wrong.
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