Just being brutally honest here.

Now all I have is TPS. I work as a Software Engineer and salary is decent. (which probably most of us do). I just turned 30 and I regret that I didn’t marry my ex girlfriend who had a green card, feels like atleast I should have gotten green card. I was hooking up with this Asian girl (35F) who had a small kid, her ex husband also lives here and they do 50/50 coparenting. hooking up back to back made me fall for her and she fell for me. She wanted to help me with green card at the very beginning after 5 months of relationship but I wasn’t ready for marriage at that time, which I should have done. I feel like a dumbass for missing that opportunity. We broke up few months ago, after 1 and half year of relationship. Now I am regretting that I should have atleast gotten green card when she wanted to help.

You guys think there is a hope for TPS? Sorry I am way to stressed out

Y would a software engineer worry about a green card ?

idk not sure how long it’s gonna take to make green card from employment based. I guessing turning 30 is making me think so many things. Feels like I am aging, and can’t think rationally

In life, we all go through lots of 'if's and 'but's, that is a human nature I guess. I believe it is better to move on and plan for later than keep thinking about what you should have done earlier and all.

If I go for masters if TPS ends, then I am guessing I can switch to F1? Also the company said that they will start processing for green card may be next year. All those first steps for employment based green card

What kind of software engineer are you username ??

Java, Some angular js, recently started working on react since the company is switching to react from angular

Yeah, you can go for Masters. Then maybe you can explore avenues like CPT and OPT again. If you still stick with the same employer who is willing to sponsor you the green card then may be it is possible to directly go from F1 to H1B with lesser time spent on OPT or no OPT at all may be. Other people can chime in if they know better.

Typical, all she wanted was to put her head on your shoulder, since she has a small child, she must be clueless with the person like you, but willing to take a risk and go further in life sponsoring you not knowing where it will take her,

Sexy in Sari,

question for benidict .do you need physical ead card to apply for software job for first time or you can just show your TPS receipt ?

@Hanuman1

"के भाको नेपाली लोगने मान्छेहरु. मुसल्तेको जस्तो तल तुपोमा कातन परेमा आमालाई नेपालमा सोध्नु - बा को कस्तो छ , काटेको छ कि छैन भनेर . दीदि बहिनिलाई फोन गर्नु -भेना को कस्तो छ भनेर यसो जाचपूछ गर्नु . दशैमा टिका को कुराकानी पनि हुन्छ, जानकारी पनि पाईनछ.

सेक्सीजी अरुलाई चै बिचमा प्याच्च बोल्यो भनेर रिसाउने अनी आफुले बिचमा बोलेर आफुले मच्चाएको तान्डबको बारेमा चै बाल मतलब। सेक्सीजी को दिमागको नसा बुढो भयो होला, हाम्रो चै छैन ल।

मैले सेक्सीजीलाई रेसिस्ट भन्नुको कारण यहाँ राख्दै। यो मान्छे "मु.." , "मा.. ", "घण्टा", "साले" मात्र बोल्ने नभएर नेपाली अरु जात, जातिका प्रती कस्तो आशय राख्दछ, तपाईंहरु आँफै पढ्नुस्। फिक्सन मानेर पढे केही थिएन, तर लेखाइ हेर्नुस् कसरी नेवार जातलाई नै गिराएर लेखेको छ। मलाई कसैलाई केही भन्नु अघी त्यो मान्छेले पहिले कस्तो बिहेभिएर राख्थ्यो, धेरै अर्थ राख्छ। बाँकी साझाका मेम्बरहरु जान्ने छन।

It’s the age that is making you feel like that just apply for the employer based or bdv it will take some years but you will get it everybody has their own timelines

people may call you जोइतिङ्ग्रे or anything but i can feel your pain . people sometimes take green card for granted but once its missed its missed forever . i came to US via border in same year 9 11 attacked happended . it was our unfortunate that all asylum filing that year had been denied . i only get green card in 2016 . i did not go home for 15 years and durung that 15 years cours everything changed in nepal and usa and my productive 15 year wasted for jsut piece of paper .

i am supports your feelings and your real struggle for green card . those who got green card as a joke ( edv lottery ) will never understand ours struggle . same is the same of most fo students strggles