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Bhanna nasaknu ko karan?

Bhanna nasaknu ko karan? ..तीन जना सालीहरू पनि संगै बस्ने रे नि त, LOL

मोज गर ब्रो| सासु ससुराको सबै मिलाउने जिम्मा बुढीलाई अहिले नै भन्दिने| ग्रोसरी तरकारी पनि बुढी र सासूलाई जिम्मा लगाउने, ता कि मेथी र हिङ्ग ल्याउन बिर्स्यो भनेर सासुको गालि सुन्नु नपरोस| ससुरो ब्रो र आफू घरैमा व्हिस्की लिएर बस्ने. नेपालमा राम्रो व्हिस्की धेरै महँगो रहेछ, बुढाहरूलाइ मोज हुन्छ. सासु ससुराको कोठामा एउटा ति भी र नेपाली, हिन्दि च्यानल युट्युब बाट स्ट्रिम गर्ने एप्ल, फायर ति भी अथवा चाइनिज कुनै डिभाइस राख्दिने. फोनमा भाइबर भएपछी उनीहरूको कुराकानी रात दिन नेपालमै हुदो रहेछ, दिउशो ति भी.

अनि ब्रो, वचचा हेर्न आउँ लागेको हो भने, सासु सरुरालाई घरमा वचचासिट छोडेर बाहिर २-३ घण्टा निस्कियो भने पहिले देटिङ्ग गरेको भन्दा इन्जोय हुन्छ, घरमा मात्र प्राइभेट टाइम अलिक कम हुने हो. आइ एम स्योर यु विल इन्जोई इत.

सालीहरु छैन हौ! बुढा बुढी र छोरो आउने भएको छ |
बुढीलाइ आफ्नो परिवार नबोलाउ भनेर कसरि भन्ने अप्ठेरो छ | आफुलाई धेरै हल्ला खल्ला मन पर्दैन अब हेर्दै जाम के गर्ने

If you have children or having children , think you are lucky.

Budi lai teti kura bhanna sakiyena bhane ta jiwan pidit nai hunchha bro. Bhani hala bro..pyachha sanga...chodera gai bhane arko bihe garne mauka milchha 😀

you lose some; you gain some

you're actually lucky, because you'll enjoy Nepali way of lifestyle in the foreign land. You sow seed now by respecting them, and you'll bear fruit of blessings all life long. eg - grocery, mail, pick up/delivery, baby sitting, and later playing 24/7 with grand kids, school, homework, kid's feed, even pet (if you have), and list goes on.

learn to enjoy; you cant escape the reality

Seriously guys are suggesting having in laws permanently not like few months is good thing? This is big no no in my opinion . If they are planning to settle down permanently you should talk to your wife openly about it , and have them settle down in apartment or rental close by and move on with their own way of life.

I have made clear to my wife that if they ever intend to move permanently they have to live in their own place. I ain't living with in laws .

साझाका बोका हरु जिबनपिडित को पिडा बुझन सक्दैनन |

Wife will always take side of mother on law, your life will suck. You will eat the food what mother in likes and live in your home life 10 yr old baby. Dont let that happen put them I an apt.

What would you have done if your own parent would have come to live with you? Put them in separate apt? Different rule if ain't yours?

Honestly I cannot live with in-laws permanently in any cost. Its up to you bro.

it's a bad idea.. my mil was specially very controlling and needed special treatment all the time. I felt like i was in prison. was 1 inch away from divorcing. i didn't know i was nothing when it came to her mom for her. try to avoid that in any cost my friend but you may not be able to like most of us you also sound emotionally and mentally whipped by your wife. good luck. if you have inherited property don't tell her and try to separate accounts. Also dont try to talk to mil or fil as much as you can. the more you talk they will know your weakness and will use that against you.